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Bullies: How Teens Feel About Real World Issues

Bullying.  Teasing.   Harassing.

Whatever you want to call it, bullying is a problem in many schools and continues to be a hot topic in the national press.  We've know many students experienced some form of bullying in the past year.  For some, it may have occurred just once this, while for others, it happened daily.

At the conclusion of the contest, Stage of Life took the time to look into and categorize why teens are bullied.

Bullying Statistics

Our poll results revealed the following bullying statistics:

  • 1085 teens from across the US took part in StageofLife.com's bullying poll by answering the question, "Have you ever been bullied, teased or picked on, and if so, about what?"  
  • After taking the poll, hundreds then submitted personal essays to the national writing contest about their personal experiences with bullying or being bullied.
  • 91% of the over 1000 teens surveyed have been a victim of bullying
  • "Looks/Size" is the number #1 reason teens have been bullied
  • The top five reasons identified by victims of bullying as its cause were:
  1. Looks/Size (23%)
  2. Being Smart, "Nerdy" (19%)
  3. Interests/Hobbies (13%)
  4. Race (9%)
  5. Family (6%)
  • 3% of teens admitted to having been a bully and now regret their actions
  • 6% of teens have never been bullied
  • The following reasons were also identified by teenagers for the cause of the bullying: being poor (5%), being rich (2%), having physical or learning disability (4% combined), sexual orientation (2%), and receiving food assistance from food stamps or a food bank (1%).
  • View all our bullying poll results.

From the contest there were several themes and trends that emerged:

Themes/Trends

1.      Confidence is Key: Most teens learned that the best way to overcome bullying is to be proud of yourself; have faith in who you are as a person, and a bully’s words won’t sting as badly.

2.      Friends: It also helps to have a friend who helps you stand up for yourself, or at the very least, understands what you are going through. Friends help shoulder your sadness or pain, and can make dealing with bullies much easier.

3.      School Officials: Sadly, many teens expressed frustration that their school officials did NOTHING to stop bullying, even after it was reported! This has been a crisis in many school systems, who wave bullying off as a “he said, she said” situation, and decide not to take action. It is important for victims to stress the importance of their situation, and make sure the bully receives a punishment for their actions.

4.      Racism: There were a surprising number of stories about racism. Teens still suffered bullying because of something like the color of the skin, or the shape of their eyes. Many teens spoke about the surprise that a melting pot like America could still be this intolerant.

5.      Body: Almost one-third of essays submitted this month dealt with bullying because of looks, body shape, or body size. Teens were frustrated because they didn’t look “perfect.” Many teens sought therapy or hospitalization because of this harsh bullying.

6.      Bottom Line: Bullying is completely unacceptable; and yet, almost 100 unique stories show that teens regularly deal with bullies and bullying. All stories made a call for bullying to end—that it does nothing but hurt—and yet it continues. You can help by standing up for the bullied, and most importantly, standing up for yourself. Do not let the bullies get you down. You are perfect just the way you are.


Bullying Stories: 

Immediately below, you'll find links to the StageofLife.com winning essay, our semi-finalists and over 85 other personal bullying essays and stories from college students and teenagers that answered the question, "Have you ever been bullied?"

Please take a few moments to read a bullying story or two. If you have the time, make a comment on the responses you enjoyed the most.  We know the student writers will love hearing your positive input (they'll get an email notifying them if you comment on their contest entry).

Student Writing Contest Winner


Winner: I was bullied because of my acne by annchovy (Be proud of yourself)

Runners-Up: 
  • I was bullied because my dad is a politician by dobbys_sock77 (She was bullied by girls who were caught under the politician stereotype)\
  • I Was Bullied Because They Did Not Know by leoda (Her family received food stamps after the recession hit)

Finalists:



Aside from the finalists, we had a wide variety of teen writing contest entry essays about bullies.  We've categorized the responses.

Your Looks/Size/Body

  • I was bullied because of my breasts by jcfischer (Her guy friends made fun of her chest size)
  • I Was Bullied Simply Because I Am Me by DreamyGal (Bullying made her not want to attend school)
  • I was bullied because I am fat by christinemp16 (Bullying brought her to therapy)
  • I was bullied because of my clothes by ashley6749 (She thought buying new clothes would help her fit in)
  • I Was Bullied Because I’m Fat by IceKacky (Poem about her weight)
  • I was bullied because I have scars on my face by kmtunduwani (This teen wishes she didn’t have scars)
  • I was bullied because unlike you, I’m no supermodel with a size of two by Kenya J (She has stopped eating during lunch at school to avoid being teased)
  • I was bullied because of my looks by Rebecca_07 (She is teased for being very thin)
  • I was Bullied For Being Ahead of Puberty by PenguinLuver (Her “friends” accused her of stuffing her bra in the fourth grade)
  • I was bullied because I was insecure by heylookitstaylor (This teen developed very early, and “let” people bully her)
  • I was bullied because of my hair, and because I let myself care by culacula14 (Young classmates did not understand her Hispanic heritage—or appearance)
  • I Was Bullied Because of My Nose, and Other Various Reasons by mynameislynn (She became homeschooled to avoid bullying)
  • I was bullied because I was overweight in middle school by adw12 (This teen’s bully apologized to her a few years down the road)
  • I was bullied because I’m fun-sized by weirderest (Her basketball coach did not want her on the team because she was “height disadvantaged”)
  • I was bullied because of the way I speak by Trinity_Daniels (This teen stood up to the bullies that made fun of her lisp)
  • I was bullied because of my size by crisamelia (She was called “Big Mama” throughough elementary school)
  • I was bullied because of my hands by dryu (This teen was bullied in what is supposed to be a safe haven: church)
  • I Was Bullied Because of My Acne by daniellev689 (This teen learned to be happy in her own skin)
  • I witnessed bullying based on appearance by rellea (This teen thought she had the courage to stand up for her friend, but found it hard to say something to bullies)
  • I Was Bullied Because I Was An Easy Target by _mrsFERB (This teen tried very hard to be liked)
  • I Was Bullied for the Paleness of My Skin by Jewels624 (Bullying has left her paralyzed with fear)
  • I was bullied because of my weight by cocobobo10 (Her ex-best friend ordered a gang of girls to beat her up)
  • I Was Bullied Because Of My Body by kelsita (Even after she lost weight, she was skeptical of boys’ newfound kindess towards her)
  • I Was Bullied Because I am Ugly by artfreak889 (When she decided to take revenge on her bully, her plan blew up in her face)
  • I was bullied because of my acne by randomcat (Be optimistic and focus on the good things in life)
  • I was bullied because I am not model skinny by jyms00480629 (Bullying led her to develop an eating disorder that landed her in the hospital)
  • I was bullied because of my acne by annchovy (Be proud of yourself)
  • I Bullied Myself Because a Cerebral Mirror Once Refused to Align with Me by bbontempo3 (He attempted suicide because he didn’t think he was good enough)
  • I was bullied because of my size by MoonDancer31807 (This girl was teased for dressing like a goth)

Your Friends

  • I Was Bullied Because: My Friends Weren’t Friends At All by jenx817 (This teen’s friends turned on her as soon as she got a boyfriend)
  • I was bullied because of jealousy by haleychristina (She was bullied because of her confident and outgoing personality)
  • I Was Bullied Because I Did Not Belong to the Clique by Theresa (Cliques make a person feel secure, but they hurt people’s feelings)
  • I was bullied… cyberbullied by auderyskulls (This teen discovered that social networking sites like MySpace can be a breeding ground for bullies)
  • I Was Bullied Because My Ex-Best Friend Turned Against Me by jes.35 (She was angry that her ex-best friend bragged too much)
  • I was bullied because I stood up for a friend by whenwillitgetbetter (This teen stood up for a friend who was being bullied, and ended up becoming a target herself)
  • I was bullied for defending a friend who was being bullied by Ninlite (Nobody should let bullies get away their actions)
  • I was bullied because I was an easy target by :)Brenna (This teen fell into a clique in elementary school)
  • I was bullied because of jealousy and a birthday party by kayaraven (Her ex-friend gave her a list of reasons why she didn’t want to be friends with her… on her tenth birthday)
  • I was bullied for being timid by germalist (She stood up for a friend who couldn’t stand for herself)
  • I was bullied because I was not aware by joshchonpc (His “friend” used to leave his body black and blue)

Being Smart/“Nerdy”

  • I was bullied because of being the new kid/being smart by sms56400 (Her classmates didn’t like her because she was smart)
  • I was bullied because of my fortunate blessings by Dante1o1 (Her classmates used her as a “toy”)
  • I was bullied because I was different by lizzy2345 (She was bullied for everything from her smarts to her interests to her looks)
  • I Was Bullied Because I Chose to Jump Beyond the Muddy Puddle by Nerdminus (The only thing that matters is that you are happy with yourself)
  • I Was Bullied Because I Wasn’t Cool by Emily (Her self esteem plummeted after overhearing a quick snippet of conversation about her)
  • I was bullied and used for my knowledge by ilikeyumibetter (This teen’s “friend” was only her friend so she could copy homework)
  • I was bullied because I was a nerd by Frizzynot (Her middle school classmates tormented her because she got good grades)
  • I was bullied by my brain by momorgan92 (She bullied herself because she was not perfect)
  • I was bullied because I’m smart by m.kelly2014 (Therapy helped her overcome bullying)
  • I was bullied because of my bubbly personality by minichen97 (This teen is very gullible, and her friends teased her for being stupid)

Your Interests

Your Gender

Your Race

  • I was bullied because of how I speak by firesong15 (She had a heavy British accent in a very rural Ohio town)
  • I was bullied because of hate by DesTin DeTar (This teen was bullied because she was the minority)
  • I was bullied because of my foreignness by tle1925 (Her family gave up their old life to come to America)
  • I was bullied because of my name by xoxohersheykiss (She has a difficult first name to pronounce)
  • I was bullied because of my looks and race by Bunni_4eva (She realized that she should have spoken up when she was bullied)
  • I Was Bullied Because of My Race by Chelarose (She was teased for being an illegal citizen)
  • I was bullied because of my race by autumnleaves (Her family taught her to be proud of her Chinese heritage, and to stand up for herself)
  • I was bullied for being an “Oreo” by myzaa (Students called her “white on the inside,” because she was not a “ghetto” African-American woman)
  • I was bullied because of my accent by DaniellaRodriguez (Students judged her intelligence based on her “poor” English speaking skills)
  • I was bullied because of my racial background by calvinboyo (This teen confronted his bully with kindness)
  • I was bullied because I am different—aren’t we all? by lavaloner (She learned to overcome bullying with a friend by her side)
  • I was bullied because of who I was by Kevser (She had a hard time speaking English when her family moved from Turkey)
  • I Was Bullied Because: I Am White by ciaobella14 (She stopped attending her Arts Middle School because she was teased for being a “princess”)
  • I was bullied because of my country by juliarho (This student felt persecuted by her British classmates because she was American)
  • I was bullied because I didn’t speak English by NRNT (This teen suffered teasing and physical violence)

Being Poor

  • I Was Bullied Because They Did Not Know by leoda (Her family received food stamps after the recession hit)
  • I was bullied because I was poor in sixth grade by Bluedreams101 (She was bullied because she did not dress well like the popular girls)

Your Sexual Orientation

  • I Was Bullied For Being Bisexual by kaitmalo (Although bullying hurt her, it also made her a stronger person)
  • I was bullied because I’m bisexual by SweetSerenity (Her confidence in her sexuality defeated her bullying

Being Rich

  • I Was Bullied Because of My Possessions by riserthinking (His classmates stole his favorite binder and pencil case)
  • I was bullied because I was rich by smiley192 (Her bullying stopped when she stood up for herself)

I Was the Bully

Your Family

  • I was bullied because someone was jealous of my family by Jesusrocks246 (A girl at her church picked on her because the girl’s family was not as close)
  • I was bullied because my dad is a politician by dobbys_sock77 (She was bullied by girls who were caught under the politician stereotype)

A Learning Disability

  • I was bullied because of a learning disability by stephw9288 (His brother was bullied for having high-functioning Autism)


    Last Words: 

    We could not list all of the essays submitted for this contest, but we thank every student that participated in the conversation about bullying.  To enter the current Stage of Life monthly writing contest for high school students and college students:

     

    Bullying Prevention Resources

    Bullying Prevention Videos:



    LearntobeHealthy.org is an online health education center that has been designed to communicate physical and mental health science education concepts to students K-12 through health educational resources such as games, activities, and health education lesson plans.




    Thank you to Kidpower Teenpower Fullpower International for permission to share this inspiring “Walk in Another’s Shoes” video created by the Kidpower of Colorado Teen Advisory Board. Kidpower is an international nonprofit leader in bullying, violence, and abuse prevention skills training. Check out Kidpower’s free on-line Library and free e-newsletter.  For publications, long-distance coaching, and in-person workshops, visit www.kidpower.org


    Did You Know: 

    Here are some helpful links related to this writing contest.  Feel free to explore these resources before or after you've entered the writing contest to get a better understanding about bullying or the reasons teenagers are bullied...

      • Kidzworld: http://www.kidzworld.com
      • Others?  Are we missing crucial support sites to help prevent bullying?  If you have suggestions - please send us a note and we'll get them posted.   Contact Us

      Stage of Life - Student Writing Contest Press Release

      Teens Share Personal Stories About Bullying on StageofLife.com

      YORK, PA--(Marketwire - Jul 15, 2011) - Many students experience bullying during high school. For some, it may have occurred just once, but for others, it happens daily.

      In an effort to dig deeper on the issue of bullying, StageofLife.com, a free blog and writing resource for teenagers, launched its national July student writing contest around the topic.

      However, rather than asking adult experts to weigh in, StageofLife.com is instead taking essay submissions directly from teens who answer the writing contest prompt, "Have you ever been bullied, teased or picked on? If so, about what?"

      So far, over 2,000 college and high school students have visited the StageofLife.com writing contest page. Hundreds of teens have answered the bullying survey and scores have entered the essay contest as they explore facets of bullying in their lives. Early essay submissions have come from students who were all bullied for a specific purpose, i.e. being fat, being bisexual, talking differently, being smart, being a girl, being a foreigner, and other reasons.

      StageofLife.com CEO, Eric Thiegs, said, "Teens aren't alone in their fight against bullying. Our hope is that one student's essay will help another realize that there are others out there struggling with the same problem."

      In conjunction with the writing contest, StageofLife.com showcases resources for teens and parents from Learning Disabilities Association of America, American Disability Association, Stop Bullying, and bullying prevention videos from KidPower.org and LearntobeHealthy.org.

      StageofLife.com's writing contests deal with "real-world" teen issues. A teen trends page outlines observations learned from past writing contests as teenagers shared their thoughts about the media, education, prom, money, parents, marriage, stress, heroes, and other topics important to students.

      Submissions for the bullying writing contest will be accepted through July 31, 2011 at Midnight PDT. One winner will be selected and will receive a prize package worth over $100 from sponsors KodakGallery.com, T-Shirts.com, and Comfort Research, along with SWAG and Featured Writer status from StageofLife.com.

      StageofLife.com is a non-partisan, grassroots blog community hosting stories, resources and a free blog for all generations. It touts free lesson plans, writing contests, and My Life Rewards®, a free savings program providing printable coupons and coupon codes for every stage of life.

      SOURCE: StageofLife.com

      Past Student Writing Contests

       National Teen Pregnancy Prevention Month Current Teen Writing Contest: "What do you attribute to the decline of teen pregnancies?"

      Details:  According to the latest teen pregnancy statistics from the CDC, U.S. teen birth rates are at an all time low.  But the last report still showed a total of 367,752 babies were born to teen girls aged 15–19.  In honor of May being National Teen Pregnancy Prevention Month, we want to hear from teens and college students about why they think teen pregnancies are dropping.

      What's the reason?  What's happening at your school or with your friends or in your community?

       
       High School Writing Contest  

      What movie has made the biggest difference in your life?

      Details:  In honor of the hottest student movie ticket in town right now, "The Hunger Games" (based off the YA fiction novel of the same title by Suzanne Collins), we wanted to find out what films speak to teens and college students.

      Which movies inspire you? 

      VIEW SUMMARY REPORT: Movies

      Teen Trends: Prom

       
       Poetry Writing Contest

      Dedicate a Poem to Someone Who Matters

      Details: In preparation for April’s National Poetry Writing Month, we are asking teens and college students to write a poem in dedication to someone who matters in their life.  Whether it is a family member, friend, teacher, celebrity or kind stranger, write an original poem about what that person means to you. 

      VIEW SUMMARY REPORT:  Teen Poems

      Teen Trends: Prom

       
      Love Writing Contest 

      CURRENT TEEN WRITING CONTEST:  What's Your Definition of Love?

        Writing Contest Details:  Teens and college students find themselves in an on-going dance as they court, woo, avoid, or try to win the romantic affections or attention of someone they like, admire...love.

        Consider these famous quotes about love...

        • "If you have it [love], you don't need to have anything else. If you don't have it, it doesn't matter much what else you have" --James M Barrie
        • "All we need is love."  --John Lennon
        • "Young love is a flame; very pretty, often very hot and fierce, but still only light and flickering. The love of the older and disciplined heart is as coals, deep-burning, unquenchable."  --Henry Ward Beecher
        • "Love is like pi -- natural, irrational, and very important." --Lisa Hoffman
        • "For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.   I can live without money, but I cannot live without love."  --Judy Garland
        • "Gravitation is not responsible for people falling in love."  --Albert Einstein
        • "If you can't be with one you love, love the one you're with."  --Stephen Stills

        It goes without saying that love can be either the happiest emotion or most tragic.  Just look at your parents.  Your grandparents.  Romeo and Juliet.  Or Kim Kardashian and Kris Humphries.  From happy to tragic to absurd, love runs the gamut.  But these platitudes are all relative, because love will always be different for everyone.  How can we pin down a definition of love?

        VIEW SUMMARY REPORT:  See what teens think of love...

        Teen Trends: Prom

         
        Person to Watch Writing Contest 

        CURRENT TEEN WRITING CONTEST:  Person to Watch in 2012?

          Writing Contest Details:  Last month, TIME magazine named "The Protestor" their Person of the Year for 2011.  That got us thinking...okay, but who is the person to watch in 2012? 

          So, in looking back at the last 12 months and considering the future, who would you nominate as the Person to Watch for 2012, and why? 

          Whether it's a celebrity, an innovator, a politician, a cultural icon, an up-and-coming artist, a rising star or someone more personal in your life, we want to hear, in 500 words or less, who your Person to Watch for 2012 would be.

          VIEW SUMMARY REPORT:  See who teens chose as the Person to Watch in 2012

          Teen Trends: Prom

           
           High School Writing Contest

          AWARENESS MONTH NOMINATION: What issue or cause should receive its own "awareness" month?

          • "There is nothing wrong with change, if it is in the right direction.” -Winston Churchill
          • “The time is always right to do what is right.” -Martin Luther King, Jr.
          • “You must be the change you wish to see in the world.” -Mohatma Ghandi

            Details:  We saw NFL players wearing pink throughout October in honor of National Breast Cancer Awareness month.  We will pay tribute to the role of African-Americans throughout February during Black History month.  Now think about the topics on which you're passionate, and share your thoughts on a single issue or cause that should receive its own awareness month. 

            In your essay, please creatively tell us...

            • Is this a local, regional, national, international or planetary issue?
            • Why is this issue important?
            • Who does the issue impact?
            • How could the message be spread?
            • Are there any organizations, companies or blogs currently trying to make a difference to increase awareness on this issue?

            VIEW SUMMARY REPORT:  See what teens wrote about awareness

            Teen Trends: Prom

             
             High School Writing Contest

            TRUST & SAFETY:  Do you trust our institutions to keep us safe?

              Details: As we look ahead to Halloween, there are scarier things than ghosts and goblins in the lives of today's teenagers and college students. 

              For instance, from a historical perspective, Baby Boomers grew up living under the threat of nuclear Armageddon, complete with classroom drills to hide under their desks in the case of nuclear attack.  However, today's teenagers and college students have been growing up in their own unique time: 

              • The threat of internet predators, cyber-bullying, and other online dangers.
              • The threat of school shootings and lock-downs.
              • The threat of terrorism.

              How do you, as a student, feel about these threats, and do you have trust in your parents, school or government (the major institutions around you) to keep you safe?

              VIEW SUMMARY REPORT:  See what teens wrote about trust and safety

              Teen Trends: Prom

               
               High School Writing Contest

              Teacher Appreciation

                Details:  It's the big back in school month.  You're either loving it, hating it, or experiencing a mixture of both.   In fact, some of you may already be waiting for final bell to ring (even if it's only 9:45am).  However, no matter how this year is starting out (good or bad), we know that there have been certain teachers and classes in the past that stand out in your mind...

                This month, think back to a favorite class or educator (teacher/coach/director/principal).  Whether it was their attitude, the way they taught, or a life lesson you learned from their class/sport/activity, how did this person make a positive impact in your life?

                VIEW SUMMARY REPORT:  See what teens wrote about their teachers.

                Teen Trends: Prom

                 
                 

                SELF-REFLECTION:  Letter to Me

                  Details:  We want you to write a letter to yourself.  Yes, you heard us...a letter to yourself.  Take 15 minutes, alone, and spend some time thinking about the upcoming school year.  Think about the things you want to accomplish.  The things you fear.  Think about where you've been and where you're going.  Think about how your summer has been going.   What are you looking forward to?  What are you dreading about the return to school?  Think about your goals.  Think about if you're looking to make a big change this year...or simply survive? 

                  After all of that thinking, now write a "Letter to Me."  This is a letter addressed to yourself.  Tackle some of the topics we've outlined above...or get creative and come up with your own original angle for the letter.

                  VIEW SUMMARY REPORT:  See what teens had to write to themselves in our "Letter Me" writing prompt

                  Teen Trends: Prom

                   
                   

                  BULLYING:  Have you ever been bullied, teased, or picked on? If so, about what?

                  Teen Trends: Whatever you want to call it, bullying is a problem in many schools and continues to be a hot topic in the national press.  We've know many students experienced some form of bullying during high school.

                  Our writing contest question this month asks teens and college students to share their stories about being bullied or about being the bully. The student is then asked to write a short essay about that experience.

                  Were you once a bully who regrets it now?  Share your experiences with us and help prevent students from bullying others.

                  VIEW SUMMARY REPORT:  See what teens shared about being bullied.

                  Teen Trends: Prom

                   
                   Teen Trends - Parent Interview Writing Contest

                  PARENTS:  What is one thing you don't know about your Mother or Father?

                  Teen Trends:  How well do teens really know their parents?

                  Our writing contest question this month asks teens and college students to interview their parents and ask them to share ONE thing about themselves their son/daughter doesn't already know.  The student is then asked to write a short essay about that experience.

                  Did you learn something that shaped the way you think about your parent?  We call this contest the "Parent Paradigm Shift."
                   

                  VIEW SUMMARY REPORT:  See what teens learned about their parents...

                  Teen Trends: Prom

                   

                  OVERCOMING OBSTACLES:  What was the most difficult thing you overcame this school year?

                  Teen Trends:  What major obstacles stood in the way this school year?

                  From friends to family to graduation to grades to self esteem, teens go through a lot in a school year.  Tell us about one area or experience that caused you the most trouble, but that you were eventually able to overcome.

                  Help inspire another high school student to gain some courage to tackle or navigate their problem by sharing your experience.

                  VIEW SUMMARY REPORT:  See what challenges teenagers face today...  

                  Teen Trends: Prom

                   
                   Teen Writing Contest about Prom

                  PROM:  Is prom a positive or negative teen tradition?

                  Teen Trends:  How do teens feel about prom?

                  Going to prom is a high school milestone, and prom traditions have been around for decades.  Dresses.  Dinner. DJ's.  Dancing.  For most teenagers, it's about celebrating life with friends and/or a significant other.  However, we've all heard the "negative" aspects often associated with prom too.  Drinking.  Drugs.  DUI's.  Damaged self-esteem.  Date rape.  So we want to know - is prom a positive or negative milestone.  

                  VIEW SUMMARY REPORT:  See how teens feel about prom...

                  Teen Trends: Prom

                   
                  Teen Trends and the Media

                  MEDIA:  What form of media impacts your life the most, and why?

                  Teen Trends:  How do teens feel about the media?

                  The "media" is an undeniably powerful entity in our daily lives, and even more invasive for teens and college students, a generation growing up with more forms of media choices than any other generation before them.

                  VIEW SUMMARY REPORT:  See how teens feel about the media...

                  Teen Trends: Media

                   
                  Writing Contest for Teens about Marriage

                  MARRIAGE:  What is the value of marriage?

                  Teen Trends:  How do teens feel about marriage?

                  This contest came out in February 2011.  The month of love.  Valentine's Day sits right in the middle of this month and helps (or in some cases forces) all of us to pay homage to the idea of romance...love. We got little controversial this month and asked teens to share their point of view on marriage.

                  VIEW SUMMARY REPORT:  See how teens feel about marriage...

                   
                  Writing Contest for Teens about Making the World a Better Place

                  MAKE A DIFFERENCE:  What organization, company, non-profit or 'cause' will help make the world a better place?

                  Teen Trends:  How do teens want to better the world?

                  Our mission on StageofLife.com is to help change the world, one story at a time.  What a better way to do that than to ask teens and college students about worthwhile causes we should all know about.  This was an opportunity for teens to shed light and share with us their favorite non-profit, company, organization or 'cause' that could help make the world a better place.

                  VIEW SUMMARY REPORT:  See how teens feel about making the world a better place...

                   
                  Writing Contest for High School Students about Money

                  MONEY:  What is your relationship with money?  How do you spend (or save)...and why?

                  Teen Trends:  How do teens feel about money?

                  Money....Cash.  Coin.  Greenbacks.  Pesos.  Gravy.  Deniro.  KaChing.  Moola.  So we're curious...how do teens and college students feel about money?  Whether the student knew a homeless teen or has a friend living in the penthouse, we wanted to know about their relationship with the almighty dollar.

                  VIEW SUMMARY REPORT:  See how teens feel about money...

                  Teen Trends: Money

                   
                  Writing Contest for Teenagers

                  GIVING THANKS:  What are you most thankful for?

                  Teen Trends:  What are teens grateful for?

                  This writing contest rolled out in November 2010.  We all get busy during the day-to-day routine of our lives, but it's important to stop once in while and reflect on what matters most, and to give thanks for that.  Keeping that in mind, we wanted to hear from teens about who or what, in their lives right now, should receive public acknowledgment of their thanks.

                  VIEW SUMMARY REPORT:  See for who and what teens are thankful...

                  Teen Trends: Thanksgiving

                   
                  Writing Contest about Stress and Teens

                  TEEN STRESS:  What stresses you out, and how do you cope with that stress?

                  Teen Trends:  How do students deal with stress?

                  From classes to homework to jobs to extra curricular activities to social outings, teens and college students are maintaining hectic schedules.  Add on top of that any current relationship hardships, social issues, e.g. bullying, illnesses or other personal problems and it's not surprising that many young people feel...stressed.

                  VIEW SUMMARY REPORT:  See how teens deal with stress...

                  Teens and Stress

                  .

                   
                  Who Is Your Hero?

                  HEROES:  Who is your hero?

                  Teen Trends:  Who would a teenager name as their hero?

                  We wanted to talk about heroes, both big and small, with high school and college students.  We asked teens to name their hero, it could be a family member, someone famous, or an everyday person in their lives who is quietly making a difference, and then write a 500 word essay about that hero.  You'll love these responses.

                  VIEW SUMMARY REPORT:  See who teens nominated as their heroes...

                  Teen Heroes

                   
                  How Would Teens Improve Education?

                  EDUCATION:  What suggestion(s) do you have to make a positive change at your school or with the educational system as a whole?

                  Teen Trends:  How would teens improve education?

                  We wanted to know how students were perceiving their educations, educational environments at their high schools, colleges and universities and the overall trends in education.  We asked the teens for ideas on how to improve the educational environment.

                  VIEW SUMMARY REPORT:  See how teens would improve the educational system...

                  Teens and Education

                   
                   Writing Contest for Teens about Food

                  FOOD:  Do we have an obligation to take better care of ourselves by making changes in the way we eat and/or buy and consume food?

                  Teen Trends:  How do teens feel about food, obesity and nutrition?

                  TV shows like NBC's Biggest Loser are big hits and books like Michael Pollan's Food Rules are flying off the shelves.  Even film documentaries like Food, Inc. and Super Size Me have pushed into the mainstream consciousness.  It goes without saying a tipping point is occurring in our society's awareness in regards to people's relationship with food.  Obesity in America is reaching an epidemic...but are people ready or really willing to change?  Is our addiction to unhealthy food too hard to break?

                  See how teens feel about food, obesity and nutrition...[this summary report is being pulled from the essay archive for posting here soon]

                   
                   Writing Contest for High School Students about College

                  COLLEGE:  What is the most difficult thing (for you) about college?

                  Teen Trends:  How do teens feel about college?

                  We want to know what's making the college process or college itself difficult and why.  Financial aid?  Application process?  Juggling classes and work? What is making college difficult?  This contest was held in partnership with "Take America to College" initiative.

                  See how teens feel about college...[this summary report is being pulled from the essay archive for posting here soon]

                   
                   Writing Contest for Teens about the Environment

                  ENVIRONMENT:  What is one behavior you can either change or incorporate into your daily life that will reduce our negative impact on the environment?

                  Teen Trends:  How do teens feel about the environment?

                  The negative environmental impact and tragedy of lives lost from the BP off-shore oil rig disaster was obvious.  What we wanted from our high school and college students entering this month's writing contest was not their outrage about how this could have happened, but rather, share one solution (big or small) that can help combat man's ever-reaching environmental impact.

                  See how teens feel about helping the environment...[this summary report is being pulled from the essay archive for posting here soon]

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