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Teens & Body Image...Changing the World

High school and college students share how they will change the world...

Teen Body Image Statistics"If we could change ourselves, the tendencies in the world would also change. As a man changes his own nature, so does the attitude of the world change towards him...we need not wait to see what others do."

--Gandhi

This is the summary report from the StageofLife.com Body Image and "Be the Change" national teen survey and writing contest. 

  • 4,000+ teens and college students visited the Stage of Life student writing contest during the month's writing prompt (December 2012) from across the US (all 50 states).
  • 377 students completed the national survey on body image (our highlighted "Be the Change" topic for the national StageofLife.com monthly teen survey).
  • 100+ student bloggers submitted a qualifying essay to the writing contest (see below links to the all of the body image and "Be the Change" essays).

Background:  In looking towards the New Year, we wanted to hear how teens and college students planned to "be the change."  This was an open-ended writing contest question that our teen bloggers and writers addressed in one of three ways:

1.  On a philosophical level, what needs to be changed in your community, city, state, country or the world?
2.  On a personal level, what will you do to make a change in yourself?
3.  Or...how have you already helped change the world and how can you spread your message to others?

This particular writing contest prompt was inspired by high school senior, Virginia Lafontant, from Law Enforcement Officers' Memorial High School in Miami, Florida, who was helping pre-teen girls in her community have a healthier body image.  Keeping community projects like Virginia's body-image initiative in mind along with Gandhi's words, we asked students to share a personal story about how they planned to "be the change," whether that was something about themselves, or a larger, more philosophical view on how something needs to change in your community or the world.


PART I - TEENS & BODY IMAGE SURVEY RESULTS

Statistics about teens' reading and buying habitsBefore submitting their essay, teens were asked to complete a survey about one issue many feel passionately about...body image.  Interesting teen body image statistics from Stage of Life student survey include (see all statistics in PDF download)...
  • 20% of teens are either "rarely" or "never" happy with their body image
  • Over half of all teens (52%) feel that the media pressures them to change their body image
  • 73% of teens feel their appearance affects their body image
  • 65% of teens are afraid of gaining weight
  • 44% of teens skip meals as a tactic to losing or controlling weight
  • 31% of teens have been on a diet in the last six months
  • 31% of teens have at least one body part on which they would like to get surgery
  • 56% of teens feel that the media's advertisements are the main cause of low self-esteem
Teens and Books - Reading and Purchasing Survey DataTo read the full national survey results on teens and body image, click the PDF icon to download.
 

PART II - TEENS & BE THE CHANGE ESSAY THEMES

StageofLife.com - Be the ChangeAfter taking the body image survey, students submitted their "Be the Change" essays to the StageofLife.com writing contest.  From the qualifying teen essay submissions, several themes and trends emerged about how students plan to change:

1. Change Myself:  Most people—especially teens—are looking to themselves to make a change the new year. Whether focusing on an internal flaw or honing their skills for good, these teens are motivated to better themselves and, as a consequence, their world.

2. Change Others: Teens that are looking to make a difference in others are promising to volunteer with non-profits, church groups, and other organizations that help and benefit the less fortunate. This effort hopes to result in changed lives—both for the recipient, and for the volunteer.

3. Change Society: Positivity seems to be the buzz word for these teens who are looking to positively transform their society into a more friendly, accepting, and tolerant space. A distinct focus on relationships, speaking up when someone is being bullied, and helping others when they need it are great places to start making society a friendlier place.

4. Change Institutions: These teens focused on changing American systems like education, prisons, foster care, and the availability of healthy foods and learning to the poor. Volunteering with national organizations or being vocal about these issues in your neighborhood are great ways to take a stand and make a change.

5. Change the World: These teens aimed to tackle worldwide issues like hunger, poverty, and war. The best way to see these changes through is to donate to a worldwide organization like UNICEF or volunteer to do some charity work overseas.


PART III - READ THE INSPIRATIONAL TEEN "BE THE CHANGE" ESSAYS

Teens Changing the World on StageofLife.comImmediately below, you'll find links to the StageofLife.com winning essay, our runners-up, semi-finalists and scores of other essays from college students and teenagers about making a difference and changing the world.  Please take a few moments to read an essay or two. If you have the time, make a comment on the responses you enjoyed the most.  We know the student writers will love hearing your positive input (they'll get an email notifying them if you comment on their writing contest entry).

Stage of Life writing contest winnerEssay Contest Winner(s):


Runners-Up (in no particular order):

StageofLife.com student essay writers - Runners Up
  1. Be the Change: I will be respected by boys by EmilyWatson10250 (This teen rightfully demands respect from the boys in her life)
  2.  Be the Change: I Will Reach Out to Others and Help them Read by Papples (This teen got involved with Reach Out and Read New Jersey)
  3. Be the Change: Focusing on the Future by Britttany_maria (This teen plans on volunteering with Promises2Kids)
  4. Be the Change: Love thy Family by wchung (This teen encourages others to love and get to know their families)
  5. Be the Change: Reaching Corners by missemify (Make friends with someone who is shy)
  6. Be the Change: Making a Difference to Those in Need by jordanb (She volunteers with the homeless)
  7. Be the Change: How I will help people focus on the “special” instead of the “needs” of those with disabilities by gsobol (Stop using the r-word)

Semi-Finalists (in no particular order):
  1. StageofLife.com teen essay writers - Semi-FinalistsBe the Change: I Will Stop Trying to be Perfect by cowsgomoo (This teen is tired of living in others’ shadows)
  2. Be the Change: Roller Coaster of Life by AshlenS (This teen wants to take chances and start living)
  3. Be the Change: I Will Carry Others by Inspired (“So while it’s small, and nothing like the essays I know I’ll read, this is my personal promise: I will be a better person. I will help others realize their self-worth, and their importance.”)
  4. Be the Change: Enlighten the World with Art by lookingforanswers (This teen will make art)
  5. Be the Change: I Discovered the Power of My Voice by waterssar (This teen joined Invisible Children in the fight against the LRA)
  6. Be the Change: I will help decrease and prevent elderly depression by betsynderson (This teen volunteers to assist the elderly at her church group)
  7. Be the Change: I will help change the outlook on life and give help to teenagers through music by Sadie Capri
  8. Be the Change: It Begins with You by jennyzhcl (Make an effort to make a change)
  9. Be the Change: Giving Simply Isn’t Helping by Mikki_Davis (She wants to see teens commit to helping others)
  10. Be the Change: I will help people in my local schools to learn more about health by semegne (This Ethiopian teen started a club at his school to educate society about health problems—a resource Ethiopia is sorely lacking)
  11. Be the Change: Rehabilitating Racehorses by laurenlove16 (This teen was touched by an injured racehorse)
  12. Be the Change: Teachers Count Too by rportenti (This teen strives to find more funds for teachers)
  13. Be the Change: How I will change my world with love and respect by racheljanie (This progressive teen will be doing charity work with a conservative Christian group in order to give to others)
  14. Be the Change: Our Environment Needs Us by Taylorleebar (She is vice president of her school’s Green Team)
  15. Be the Change: Banishing Hunger in 2013 and Beyond by rxing963 (This teen views the world via a rosy lens—but that is about to change)
  16. Be the Change: Hunger, Hope, and One Serious Tan Line by MariaRose (This teen wears a ring that says “be the change”)


StageofLIfe.com writing contest submissionsAll Qualifying Teen Essays - "How Will You Be the Change"

The essays below were written by Stage of Life teen writers for the December 2012 writing contest and are listed by "change" category:

Change Myself

  1. Be the Change: I Will Change my Outlook on Myself by EvanescentFelicity (The media bullies us into trying to be and look “perfect”)

  2. Be the Change: I Will Stop Trying to be Perfect by cowsgomoo (This teen is tired of living in others’ shadows)

  3. Be the Change: No worries! by krmurphy91 (She is learning that life is not predictable)

  4. Be the Change: Healthy Eating Habits by tdeckenbach16 (School cafeterias sell a lot of tempting junk food)

  5. Be the Change: Being Positive by ktodero15 (This teen is trying to change their pessimistic ways)

  6. Be the Change by kstewart15 (This teen is excited to start eating healthy)

  7. Be the Change: Changing the World by wtavakkol14 (Be kind to others)

  8. Be the Change: I Will Change How I See Myself by n0stalgic (This teen invented “Nice Notes” as a way to improve her self-image)

  9. Be the Change: Within Myself by Baseball101 (This teen wants to stop talking badly about himself)

  10. Be the Change: I Will Not Gossip by cee (Gossip-free means being guilt-free)

  11. Be the Change by jordan2013 (This teen is looking to finish high school on a high note)

  12. Be the Change: Finding My Passion by bschmidt (This teen plans on finding something to be passionate about)

  13. Be the Change: Take a Break by austinh (He plans on dedicating some time to himself next year)

  14. Be the Change: Revising Myself by extremlysarah (She wants to express her faith and find self-confidence)

  15. Be the Change: Priorities and My Social Life by srobinson (She hopes to reprioritize what’s important in her life)

  16. Be the Change: Waiting for a Reason by jordanhi (She is waiting for a cause from god)

  17. Be the Change: Roller Coaster of Life by AshlenS (This teen wants to take chances and start living)

  18. Be the Change: I’m Doing Me by Rosie_Frank2 (She is going to focus more on herself and her goals)

  19. Be the Change: Transform Yourself by september27 (This teen wants to focus on motivation)

  20. Be the Change: How I Plan on Changing Myself Within a Year by benhernandez14 (This teen wants to gain more self-confidence and be more active)

  21. Be the Change: Honesty is the Best Policy by ttasnim (This teen will try harder to be honest and to keep promises)

  22. Be the Change: Never Limit Yourself, Create Your Opportunities by phoppens (This teen will begin giving back)

  23. Be the Change: I Will Accept My Past by Medusa101 (This teen wants to accept her adoption)

  24. Be the Change: To Change Myself by Josiah_M (“The smallest kindness can turn a person’s whole day around”)

  25. Be the Change: I Need Change by saralindsayy (This teen wants control)

  26. Be the Change: I will be respected by boys by EmilyWatson10250 (This teen rightfully demands respect from the boys in her life)

  27. Be the Change: Small Changes in Time by BreannaMarie (She has started making small, positive changes in her life)

  28. Be the Change: Changes in 2013 by laceymarr (She needs to start living in the moment)

  29. Be the Change: A Splash of Niceness Doesn’t Hurt Anyone by LifeIsBeauty_ (This teen wants to perform one small act of kindness everyday)

  30. Be the Change: I Will Carry Others by Inspired (“So while it’s small, and nothing like the essays I know I’ll read, this is my personal promise: I will be a better person. I will help others realize their self-worth, and their importance.”)

  31. Be the Change: Taking a better look at the mirror’s reflection by bridgette1 (This teen will treat others and herself better)

  32. Be the Change: The Fight Against Mob Logic, or Being Reasonable by chris.zhang.3551 (This teen will think for himself)

  33. Be the Change: Enlighten the World with Art by lookingforanswers (This teen will make art)

  34. Be the Change: I Discovered the Power of My Voice by waterssar (This teen joined Invisible Children in the fight against the LRA)

  35. Be the Change: I will make decisions that will yield to the greater good by riyamajumdar (This teen will begin making decisions based on moral obligation)

  36. Be the Change: Changing Myself into the Image of Loyalty by PHILosophical (This teen wants to be seen as a positive example for others)

  37. Be the Change: Going My Own Way by badwillhunting (This teen wants to break free)

  38. Be the Change: I am going to continue to take steps to find my inner peace and happiness by singh_eshan (This teen is looking to find happiness)

Change Others

  1. Be the Change: I Will Reach Out to Others and Help them Read by Papples (This teen got involved with Reach Out and Read New Jersey)

  2. Be the Change: I will help decrease and prevent elderly depression by betsynderson (This teen volunteers to assist the elderly at her church group)

  3. Be the Change: In 2013 by echen16 (This teen plans on volunteering with non-profit organizations, among other things)

  4. Be the Change: I will be the change by bringing it back by pineapplefrenzy (This teens want to resort back to a “kinder” way of speaking)

  5. Be the Change: Positive Opinions by bdignes16 (Put your ego aside to help others)

  6. Be the Change: I want to help my peers realize that we all have a broad and open future by CorvetteCaptain (There is more to life than high school)

  7. Be the Change: I will help change the outlook on life and give help to teenagers through music by Sadie Capri

  8. Be the Change: Be the Change of 2013 by tlorand16 (This teen wants to volunteer once a month)

  9. Be the Change: To change the eyes of society by angelicamariesd (This teen aims to change her classmates’ minds about suicide)

  10. Be the Change: Focusing on the Future by Britttany_maria (This teen plans on volunteering with Promises2Kids)

  11. Be the Change: The Change of a Life by carloscafe (This teen plans on donating to help the less fortunate in Africa)

  12. Be the Change: Donating Life by mmoore (This teen will donate to the American Red Cross)

  13. Be the Change: By being a nice person by Christisump (Even the smallest act of kindness can make the biggest difference)

  14. Be the Change: I will raise awareness on self-injury in teens, why they do it, and how to help them by strawberrygrl1999 (She will help others understand self-harm)

  15. Be the Change: Love thy Family by wchung (This teen encourages others to love and get to know their families)

  16. Be the Change: Salvation of Motivation in Changing the World by AlexPark (This teen wants to help others make changes)

  17. Be the Change: Reaching Corners by missemify (Make friends with someone who is shy)

  18. Be the Change: Parents should be better role models by Nelu96 (Parents should better protect their children from outside dangers)

  19. Be the Change: I Will Help Children to Become Less Dependent on Technology by lvest (This teen wants to see kids less focused on their smart phones)

  20. Be the Change: Helping Students with Issues Concerning Friendship by MYPOV (This teen made friends with a loner and will encourage others to do the same)

  21. Be the Change: It Begins with You by jennyzhcl (Make an effort to make a change)

  22. Be the Change: Help people accept themselves for who they are by sf_2012 (She is both Muslim and gay)

Change Society

  1. Be the Change: Anti-Bullying by LaurenEW16 (We need stricter laws regarding bullying)

  2. Be the Change: Helping fellow students be comfortable with their sexuality by emmalinehoffman (This teen plans on joining her school’s GSA chapter to make her school, and society, more GLBTQIA-friendly)

  3. Be the Change: Suicide will no longer be a way out by DreamBig1996 (She lost someone close to her to suicide)

  4. Be the Change: Causes of Mental Illness by BAMenas (This teen researched the causes of mental illness to better educate herself)

  5. Be the Change: I will help teens overcome society’s “rules” by Deanna (She wants to become a psychologist)

  6. Be the Change: Making a Difference to Those in Need by jordanb (She volunteers with the homeless)

  7. Be the Change: Climbing the Staircase to Success by clairedrotman (No teen should be peer pressured into drinking)

  8. Be the Change: Healthy Habits by AccioNiffler11095 (Reduce obesity by keeping active)

  9. Be the Change: Bullying by Cookiecrumbs31 (This teen will reach out to help those being bullied)

  10. Be the Change: Appreciating the Small Things by jvandermerwe15 (This teen learned a lot during their powerless time during Hurricane Sandy)

  11. Be the Change: The Golden Rule by jozieg (Everyone should treat others like they want to be treated)

  12. Be the Change: Habitat Creation by Eugene (He hopes to create a habitat for game birds)

  13. Be the Change: What Needs to be Done to Change Our World by cvorel16 (Focus more on relationships with others and less on the daily grind)

  14. Be the Change: Giving Simply Isn’t Helping by Mikki_Davis (She wants to see teens commit to helping others)

  15. Be the Change: From Obesity to Self-Destruction; it has to change by student1 (This teen wants to change how we view body image)

  16. Be the Change: Racism by fsiddiqui14 (This teen wants to see an end to racism)

  17. Be the Change: My Work to Improve the Wellness of All Creatures by SRodeo (This teen will continue already humanitarian work)

  18. Be the Change: Save Lives by Linale91 (She wants to see more people armed)

  19. Be the Change: I will help people in my local schools to learn more about health by semegne (This Ethiopian teen started a club at his school to educate society about health problems—a resource Ethiopia is sorely lacking)

  20. Be the Change: Rehabilitating Racehorses by laurenlove16 (This teen was touched by an injured racehorse)

  21. Be the Change: Forging a New Future, Today by CatherineT (We must use technology for good)

  22. Be the Change: Spread Bullying Awareness and Encourage ‘Stay Strong’ by akhorana3 (This teen will spread awareness with school presentations on bullying)

  23. Be the Change: Breaking the Molds by MikkiB326 (Stop stereotyping)

  24. Be the Change: Helping Stop Environmental Racism by sweet-ayi (Minorities often live in areas with higher concentrations of pollution)

  25. Be the Change: I will empower the youth by shashankraop (This teen plans on creating a Facebook page for others to vent)

  26. Be the Change: How I will help people focus on the “special” instead of the “needs” of those with disabilities by gsobol (Stop using the r-word)

  27. Be the Change: I Will Decrease the Amount of Alcohol Abusers by EricaMeline (This teen will join her SADD club to protest drunk driving)

  28. Be the Change: A Word on the Speechless and Outcasts by mrcoolerthancool (One in twelve teens self-harms)

Change Institutions

  1. Be the Change: The Foster Care System by bellarm (This teen experienced firsthand the neglect of the foster care system)

  2. Be the Change: A Balance of Food by fmike26 (This teen wants to set an example by purchasing healthy foods)

  3. Be the Change: I will help to change our failing public education system by Samkin (Students need more time to better understand what they are learning)

  4. Be the Change: Change in 2013 by zm6j8 (This teen hopes to see the penny abolished in 2013)

  5. Be the Change: Offering my Writing by riserthinking (She wants to offer her writing skills to organizations for the greater good)

  6. Be the Change: Teachers Count Too by rportenti (This teen strives to find more funds for teachers)

  7. Be the Change: Time for Change by kittybutts (Take a stand and refuse to be a pawn)

  8. Be the Change: Education vs. Prison by mushtary (Some states spend more money on prisons than education)

  9. Be the Change: What is Education? by Winwinhh (This teen is a tutor who firmly believes in the importance of education)

Change the World

  1. Be the Change: How I will change my world with love and respect by racheljanie (This progressive teen will be doing charity work with a conservative Christian group in order to give to others)

  2. Be the Change: Poverty and Hunger by svirga16 (Donate to your local UNICEF chapter)

  3. Be the Change: Our Environment Needs Us by Taylorleebar (She is vice president of her school’s Green Team)

  4. Be the Change: The Problems in the World by daniel kifer (A poem about making big changes in the world)

  5. Be the Change: Banishing Hunger in 2013 and Beyond by rxing963 (This teen views the world via a rosy lens—but that is about to change)

  6. Be the Change: For a More Moral World by Belest (Morality must rule our decisions)

  7. Be the Change: World Peace by Arman (Killing must end)

  8. Be the Change: Hunger, Hope, and One Serious Tan Line by MariaRose (This teen wears a ring that says “be the change”)




Resources:  

To help the teens start thinking about areas where they could make a difference, we provided the following list of "Be the Change" topics as a resource...several of them have been addressed by StageofLife.com teen writing and blogging contests in the past (see links to those summary reports)...

  • Self esteem / body image topics
  • PTSD in soldiers / military issues
  • Divorce issues / step-families
  • The workings of the teenage brain
  • Why teenagers take risks
  • Cutting, Burning, Self-inflicted harm
  • Suicide
  • Various types of drug / alcohol abuse
  • Underage drinking on college campuses
  • Curfew laws
  • School dress codes
  • Teen pregnancy
  • Family relationships
  • Incest
  • Child Abuse
  • Foster care
  • Poverty / Homelessness in teenagers
  • Cyber bullying
  • Steroid usage in sports
  • Concussions in sports
  • The Importance of extra-curricular activities
  • Arts in schools
  • The failure of public education
  • No Child Left Behind / state mandated tests / SATs
  • Pre-marital sex / love / crushes
  • Running away from home
  • Late start time for schools
  • Obesity / health related topics
  • Career related topics
  • Homophobia / Gay / Lesbian / Transgender issues
  • Media effects on girls / boys
  • Violence in video games / video game addiction
  • Title IX (girls in sports)
  • Drinking and driving
  • Stress in teenagers
  • Goals, happiness, coping mechanisms
  • Success in school / life / future (7 principals of highly effective teenagers)Illnesses (mental / physical)
  • Human Trafficking



Writing contests on StageofLife.comWriting Contests on Stage of Life

StageofLife.com hosts educational, national, monthly writing and blogging contests for teens and college students.  In its mission to provide students an authentic community to share their opinions and publish their ideas, StageofLife.com will strive to continue its commitment to giving teens and college students a larger voice. 

We welcome you to explore our writing contests, our mission and the literacy principals on which it Stage of Life was founded.

Past Student Writing Contests

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May 2013 national writing contest for students

May 2013 National Writing Contest:  Share a Special Memory of Your Mom, Grandmother, or Important Woman in Your Life?


Writing Contest Details:  It's May, and we're honoring Moms and Grandmothers this month.  So we're asking students to take ten minutes to respond to our writing prompt: "Share a Special Memory of Your Mother or Grandmother." 

Simple.  Yet Powerful. 

We want to hear a special memory about an important woman in your life.  Get details and enter the FREE Stage of Life national writing contest to share your voice with the world...


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April 2013 National Writing Contest:  What Current National or International News Story Do You Think More Teens and College Students Should Care About, and Why?


Writing Contest Details:  There is a LOT going on in the news.  For instance, the day we posted this April 2013 monthly writing contest, we saw headlines for news stories on the following topics...

Nuclear armed North Korea's aggressive militaristic talk, North Dakota passes most restrictive abortion bill in US history, US Supreme Court debates gay marriage, Cyprus Banks and Economic issues in the Euro Zone, Pope includes women for first time in Holy Thursday rite, US Senate group resolves key immigration issues to move ahead with overhaul of US immigration policy, China's losing battle against polluters, Obama makes impassioned plea for gun control legislation, NCAA Basketball Tournament enters Final 4, Obamacare...and many others.

Keeping these news headlines (and others you may have recently read, seen, or heard in mind), our question this month was..."What current news story or event should teens and college students care about...and why?"

THIS CONTEST IS BEING JUDGED

 
Writing Contest for Teens - StageofLife.com 

March 2013 National Writing Contest:  When have you applied the phrase "No Fear" in your life?


Writing Contest Details:  Every teenager or college students has fears.  Some are things you can touch, like snakes.  Some are situations you want to avoid, like public speaking or test taking.  Some come from childhood stories, like ghosts or monsters.  And some fears are things that unfortunately find us, like terrorism, natural disasters, or cancer.  

However, we can't live in the shadows of our fears everyday.  To do so would dishonor the act of living.

So this month, the Stage of Life national writing contest prompt is simple:  "As a teen or college student, how have you applied the phrase "No Fear" in your life?"

Teens and Fear - StageofLife.com student writing contest

 
 Student Writing Contest - Favorite TV Shows February 2013 National Writing Contest:  Why Can't You Turn Away From Your Favorite TV Show?

Writing Contest Details:  It's winter, and we're in the middle of a new season of TV programming (as most of you know who have been fervently waiting for your favorite shows to begin again).

For good or bad, people everywhere are spending more time indoors right now, plopped down in front of the warm glow of their favorite television shows.  Glee.  Breaking Bad.  Mad Men.  The Bachelor.  The Super Bowl.  American Idol.  Boardwalk Empire.  Nashville.  Survivor.  Downton Abby.  Homeland.  Modern Family.  And the list goes on.

Whether you love Golden Globe nominated TV programming found on the cable channels or the popular reality TV series found on all of the major networks, we want to know what one TV show makes you stop in your tracks, put on your cozy clothes, and jump up on the couch for 30-60 minutes of "me" time.


Teens and TV - StageofLife.com student writing contest

 
Gun Rights vs. Gun Control - Where do we go after Newtown? 

January 2013 National Writing Contest:  Where do we go after Newtown?

Writing Contest Details: What solutions, if any, would you propose to Congress, parents, school officials, gun advocacy groups, or the NRA after the tragic event in Newtown this last December? 

Or, on a more emotional level, how do you simply feel about this event and what changes, if any, did it make in you?

And for everyone...where do we go from here??

View our Writing Contest Summary on Teens and Guns.

Teens and Guns - StageofLife.com student writing contest

 
Teens and Body Image
 

December 2012 Writing Contest:  How will you be the change in 2013?


Writing Contest Details:  In looking towards 2013, we want to hear how you will "be the change." This open-ended writing contest question can be addressed in a 500-word essay in one of three ways:

1.  On a philosophical level, what needs to be changed in 2013 in your community, city, state, country or the world?

2.  Or...on a personal level, what will you do to make a change in yourself in 2013?

3.  Or...how have you already helped change the world and how can you spread your message to others in 2013?

As a part of this month's topic, we're also asking teens in our national survey how they feel about one very important "change" topic...body image.

View Summary Report:  Teens and Body Image - Be the Change

StageofLife.com Teen Trends: Teens and Body Image

 
 

November 2012 Writing Contest:  What was the most inspirational or important book you've ever read?

Writing Contest Details:  After years of asking teens to submit personal, inspirational essays about everything from their favorite songs to their favorite movies, surprisingly, we never asked students to write an essay about their favorite book.

For those of you familiar with StageofLife.com, you know we're one of the nation's leading digital literacy initiatives.  So it's about time we celebrate one of the foundations of literacy itself... books!

We're asking high school and college students to share a 500 word essay about their favorite book and how and why it made an impact on their life.

View Summary Report:  Teens and Books

StageofLife.com Teen Trends: Teens, Books and Literacy


 
 StageofLife.com student writing contest - Sports and Family

October 2012:  SPORTS & FAMILY - How have sports positively (or negatively) shaped traditions in your family?

Writing Contest Details:  The month of October is rife with professional sports.  The World Series is played this month, along with college football, NFL football, NASCAR and NHL hockey seasons all being in full swing...not to mention the NBA basketball season starting too.

This led us to wonder how sports (American or International) play a role in forming family traditions (positively or negatively), so we're asking high school and college students to share a 500 word essay about the impact of sports as it relates to their family traditions.

View Summary Report:  Teens and Sports

StageofLife.com Teen Trends: Teens and Sports

 
Political essay teen writing contest - StageofLife.com

September 2012:  POLITICS & PASSION - Share a story about what one political issue is most important to you in the upcoming U.S. Presidential election.

Writing Contest Details:  With the U.S. presidential election coming up in November, our student writing contest this month asks teens and college students to share a personal essay on the current state of the union, and in particular, what one issue is the most important topic for you in the upcoming U.S. Presidential election.

We call this important issue your "passion issue."

Other components of the writing prompt also ask you to share if your parents' political viewpoints have made an impact on yours and which Presidential Candidate is best suited to make the lives of teens and college students better over the next four years.

View Summary Report:  Teens and Politics

StageofLife.com Teen Trends: Teens and Politics

 
Stage of Life writing contest - teens and music 

July & August 2012:  MUSIC - Share a story of a song that played an important role during a unique time in your life.

Writing Contest Details:  Music plays an integral role in our lives.  There was the song that was playing in the background during that last slow dance on your first prom.  The song you listened to over and over after your first break-up.  Or the song you and your friends belted out at the top of your lungs one summer night around a campfire.

We all have stories tied to songs that have become a part of who we are, thanks to those songs playing in the background during key moments and milestones of our lives.

For our July and August writing contest, we want you to share a 300-500 word essay about how a particular song impacted you during an important time in your life.

View Summary Report:  Teens and Music

StageofLife.com Teen Trends: Teens and Music

 
 

June 2012:  NATURE - How has nature inspired you?

Writing Contest Details:  With summer upon us, students will find themselves out of school...and outside!  Or...will they?

According to Richard Louv, author of Last Child in the Woods, today's children (and adults) are deprived of a basic necessity we have as humans...to connect with the outdoors.  Louv labels this phenomenon (that many saw happening but couldn't quite articulate): "nature-deficit disorder."

Between jobs, Facebook, online gaming, or bad weather, many teens will forgo opportunities to feel the grass beneath their toes, to breath in a summer breeze, to let sun touch their skin, and to otherwise connect with the planet around them.

But we know that can't be the case for everyone...can it?  Are we all experiencing nature-deficit?

How has nature inspired you?

View Summary Report: 
Teens and Nature

StageofLife.com Teen Trends: Teens and Nature

 
 National Teen Pregnancy Prevention Month May 2012:  TEEN PREGNANCY - What do you attribute to the decline of teen pregnancies?

Writing Contest Details:  According to the latest teen pregnancy statistics from the CDC, U.S. teen birth rates are at an all time low.  But the last report still showed a total of 367,752 babies were born to teen girls aged 15–19.  In honor of May being National Teen Pregnancy Prevention Month, we want to hear from teens and college students about why they think teen pregnancies are dropping.

What's the reason?  What's happening at your school or with your friends or in your community

VIEW SUMMARY REPORT:  Teen Pregnancy Prevention

StageofLife.com Teen Trends: Teen Pregnancy Prevention

 
 High School Writing Contest  

April 2012:  MOVIES - What movie has made the biggest difference in your life?

Writing Contest Details:  In honor of the hottest student movie ticket in town right now, "The Hunger Games" (based off the YA fiction novel of the same title by Suzanne Collins), we wanted to find out what films speak to teens and college students.

Which movies inspire you? 

VIEW SUMMARY REPORT: Teens and Movies

Teen Trends: Movies

 
 Poetry Writing Contest

March 2012:  POETRY - Dedicate a Poem to Someone Who Matters

Writing Contest Details: In preparation for April’s National Poetry Writing Month, we are asking teens and college students to write a poem in dedication to someone who matters in their life.  Whether it is a family member, friend, teacher, celebrity or kind stranger, write an original poem about what that person means to you. 

VIEW SUMMARY REPORT:  Teen Poems

Teen Trends: Poetry

 
Love Writing Contest 

February 2012:  LOVE - What's Your Definition of Love?

    Writing Contest Details:  Teens and college students find themselves in an on-going dance as they court, woo, avoid, or try to win the romantic affections or attention of someone they like, admire...love.

    Consider these famous quotes about love...

    • "If you have it [love], you don't need to have anything else. If you don't have it, it doesn't matter much what else you have" --James M Barrie
    • "All we need is love."  --John Lennon
    • "Young love is a flame; very pretty, often very hot and fierce, but still only light and flickering. The love of the older and disciplined heart is as coals, deep-burning, unquenchable."  --Henry Ward Beecher
    • "Love is like pi -- natural, irrational, and very important." --Lisa Hoffman
    • "For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.   I can live without money, but I cannot live without love."  --Judy Garland
    • "Gravitation is not responsible for people falling in love."  --Albert Einstein
    • "If you can't be with one you love, love the one you're with."  --Stephen Stills

    It goes without saying that love can be either the happiest emotion or most tragic.  Just look at your parents.  Your grandparents.  Romeo and Juliet.  Or Kim Kardashian and Kris Humphries.  From happy to tragic to absurd, love runs the gamut.  But these platitudes are all relative, because love will always be different for everyone.  How can we pin down a definition of love?

    VIEW SUMMARY REPORT:  See what teens think of love...

    Teen Trends: Love

     
    Person to Watch Writing Contest 

    January 2012:  Person to Watch in 2012?

      Writing Contest Details:  Last month, TIME magazine named "The Protestor" their Person of the Year for 2011.  That got us thinking...okay, but who is the person to watch in 2012? 

      So, in looking back at the last 12 months and considering the future, who would you nominate as the Person to Watch for 2012, and why? 

      Whether it's a celebrity, an innovator, a politician, a cultural icon, an up-and-coming artist, a rising star or someone more personal in your life, we want to hear, in 500 words or less, who your Person to Watch for 2012 would be.

      VIEW SUMMARY REPORT:  See who teens chose as the Person to Watch in 2012

      Teen Trends: 2012 Person to Watch

       
       High School Writing Contest

      November & December 2011: AWARENESS - What issue or cause should receive its own "awareness" month?

      • "There is nothing wrong with change, if it is in the right direction.” -Winston Churchill
      • “The time is always right to do what is right.” -Martin Luther King, Jr.
      • “You must be the change you wish to see in the world.” -Mohatma Ghandi

        Details:  We saw NFL players wearing pink throughout October in honor of National Breast Cancer Awareness month.  We will pay tribute to the role of African-Americans throughout February during Black History month.  Now think about the topics on which you're passionate, and share your thoughts on a single issue or cause that should receive its own awareness month. 

        In your essay, please creatively tell us...

        • Is this a local, regional, national, international or planetary issue?
        • Why is this issue important?
        • Who does the issue impact?
        • How could the message be spread?
        • Are there any organizations, companies or blogs currently trying to make a difference to increase awareness on this issue?

        VIEW SUMMARY REPORT:  See what teens wrote about awareness

        Teen Trends: Awareness Issues

         
         High School Writing Contest

        October 2011:  TRUST & SAFETY - Do you trust our institutions to keep us safe?

          Details: As we look ahead to Halloween, there are scarier things than ghosts and goblins in the lives of today's teenagers and college students. 

          For instance, from a historical perspective, Baby Boomers grew up living under the threat of nuclear Armageddon, complete with classroom drills to hide under their desks in the case of nuclear attack.  However, today's teenagers and college students have been growing up in their own unique time: 

          • The threat of internet predators, cyber-bullying, and other online dangers.
          • The threat of school shootings and lock-downs.
          • The threat of terrorism.

          How do you, as a student, feel about these threats, and do you have trust in your parents, school or government (the major institutions around you) to keep you safe?

          VIEW SUMMARY REPORT:  See what teens wrote about trust and safety

          Teen Trends: Trust & Safetey

           
           High School Writing Contest

          September 2011:  EDUCATION - Teacher Appreciation essays

            Details:  It's the big back in school month.  You're either loving it, hating it, or experiencing a mixture of both.   In fact, some of you may already be waiting for final bell to ring (even if it's only 9:45am).  However, no matter how this year is starting out (good or bad), we know that there have been certain teachers and classes in the past that stand out in your mind...

            This month, think back to a favorite class or educator (teacher/coach/director/principal).  Whether it was their attitude, the way they taught, or a life lesson you learned from their class/sport/activity, how did this person make a positive impact in your life?

            VIEW SUMMARY REPORT:  See what teens wrote about their teachers.

            Teen Trends: Teacher Appreciation

             
             

            August 2011:  SELF-REFLECTION - Letter to Me

              Details:  We want you to write a letter to yourself.  Yes, you heard us...a letter to yourself.  Take 15 minutes, alone, and spend some time thinking about the upcoming school year.  Think about the things you want to accomplish.  The things you fear.  Think about where you've been and where you're going.  Think about how your summer has been going.   What are you looking forward to?  What are you dreading about the return to school?  Think about your goals.  Think about if you're looking to make a big change this year...or simply survive? 

              After all of that thinking, now write a "Letter to Me."  This is a letter addressed to yourself.  Tackle some of the topics we've outlined above...or get creative and come up with your own original angle for the letter.

              VIEW SUMMARY REPORT:  See what teens had to write to themselves in our "Letter Me" writing prompt

              Teen Trends: Letter to Me

               
               

              July 2011:  BULLYING - Have you ever been bullied, teased, or picked on? If so, about what?

              Details: Whatever you want to call it, bullying is a problem in many schools and continues to be a hot topic in the national press.  We've know many students experienced some form of bullying during high school.

              Our writing contest question this month asks teens and college students to share their stories about being bullied or about being the bully. The student is then asked to write a short essay about that experience.

              Were you once a bully who regrets it now?  Share your experiences with us and help prevent students from bullying others.

              VIEW SUMMARY REPORT:  See what teens shared about being bullied.

              Teen Trends: Bullying

               
               Teen Trends - Parent Interview Writing Contest

              June 2011:  PARENTS - What is one thing you don't know about your Mother or Father?

              Teen Trends:  How well do teens really know their parents?

              Our writing contest question this month asks teens and college students to interview their parents and ask them to share ONE thing about themselves their son/daughter doesn't already know.  The student is then asked to write a short essay about that experience.

              Did you learn something that shaped the way you think about your parent?  We call this contest the "Parent Paradigm Shift."
               

              VIEW SUMMARY REPORT:  See what teens learned about their parents...

              Teen Trends: Parent Relationships

               

              May 2011:  OBSTACLES - What was the most difficult thing you overcame this school year?

              Teen Trends:  What major obstacles stood in the way this school year?

              From friends to family to graduation to grades to self esteem, teens go through a lot in a school year.  Tell us about one area or experience that caused you the most trouble, but that you were eventually able to overcome.

              Help inspire another high school student to gain some courage to tackle or navigate their problem by sharing your experience.

              VIEW SUMMARY REPORT:  See what challenges teenagers face today...  

              Teen Trends: Challenges

               
               Teen Writing Contest about Prom

              April 2011:  PROM - Is prom a positive or negative teen tradition?

              Teen Trends: How do teens feel about prom?

              Going to prom is a high school milestone, and prom traditions have been around for decades.  Dresses.  Dinner. DJ's.  Dancing.  For most teenagers, it's about celebrating life with friends and/or a significant other.  However, we've all heard the "negative" aspects often associated with prom too.  Drinking.  Drugs.  DUI's.  Damaged self-esteem.  Date rape.  So we want to know - is prom a positive or negative milestone.  

              VIEW SUMMARY REPORT:  See how teens feel about prom...

              Teen Trends: Prom

               
              Teen Trends and the Media

              March 2011:  MEDIA - What form of media impacts your life the most, and why?

              Teen Trends: How do teens feel about the media?

              The "media" is an undeniably powerful entity in our daily lives, and even more invasive for teens and college students, a generation growing up with more forms of media choices than any other generation before them.

              VIEW SUMMARY REPORT:  See how teens feel about the media...

              Teen Trends: Media

               
              Writing Contest for Teens about Marriage

              February 2011:  MARRIAGE - What is the value of marriage?

              Teen Trends:  How do teens feel about marriage?

              This contest came out in February 2011.  The month of love.  Valentine's Day sits right in the middle of this month and helps (or in some cases forces) all of us to pay homage to the idea of romance...love. We got little controversial this month and asked teens to share their point of view on marriage.

              VIEW SUMMARY REPORT:  See how teens feel about marriage...

               
              Writing Contest for Teens about Making the World a Better Place

              January 2011:  MAKE A DIFFERENCE - What organization, company, non-profit or 'cause' will help make the world a better place?

              Teen Trends:  How do teens want to better the world?

              Our mission on StageofLife.com is to help change the world, one story at a time.  What a better way to do that than to ask teens and college students about worthwhile causes we should all know about.  This was an opportunity for teens to shed light and share with us their favorite non-profit, company, organization or 'cause' that could help make the world a better place.

              VIEW SUMMARY REPORT:  See how teens feel about making the world a better place...

               
              Writing Contest for High School Students about Money

              December 2010:  MONEY - What is your relationship with money?  How do you spend (or save)...and why?

              Teen Trends: How do teens feel about money?

              Money....Cash.  Coin.  Greenbacks.  Pesos.  Gravy.  Deniro.  KaChing.  Moola.  So we're curious...how do teens and college students feel about money?  Whether the student knew a homeless teen or has a friend living in the penthouse, we wanted to know about their relationship with the almighty dollar.

              VIEW SUMMARY REPORT:  See how teens feel about money...

              Teen Trends: Money

               
              Writing Contest for Teenagers

              November 2010:  GIVING THANKS - What are you most thankful for?

              Teen Trends: What are teens grateful for?

              This writing contest rolled out in November 2010.  We all get busy during the day-to-day routine of our lives, but it's important to stop once in while and reflect on what matters most, and to give thanks for that.  Keeping that in mind, we wanted to hear from teens about who or what, in their lives right now, should receive public acknowledgment of their thanks.

              VIEW SUMMARY REPORT:  See for who and what teens are thankful...

              Teen Trends: Thanksgiving

               
              Writing Contest about Stress and Teens

              October 2010: TEEN STRESS -  What stresses you out, and how do you cope with that stress?

              Teen Trends: How do students deal with stress?

              From classes to homework to jobs to extra curricular activities to social outings, teens and college students are maintaining hectic schedules.  Add on top of that any current relationship hardships, social issues, e.g. bullying, illnesses or other personal problems and it's not surprising that many young people feel...stressed.

              VIEW SUMMARY REPORT:  See how teens deal with stress...

              Teens and Stress

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              Who Is Your Hero?

              September 2010:  HEROES - Who is your hero?

              Teen Trends:  Who would a teenager name as their hero?

              We wanted to talk about heroes, both big and small, with high school and college students.  We asked teens to name their hero, it could be a family member, someone famous, or an everyday person in their lives who is quietly making a difference, and then write a 500 word essay about that hero.  You'll love these responses.

              VIEW SUMMARY REPORT:  See who teens nominated as their heroes...

              Teen Heroes

               
              How Would Teens Improve Education?

              August 2010: EDUCATION - What suggestion(s) do you have to make a positive change at your school or with the educational system as a whole?

              Teen Trends: How would teens improve education?

              We wanted to know how students were perceiving their educations, educational environments at their high schools, colleges and universities and the overall trends in education.  We asked the teens for ideas on how to improve the educational environment.

              VIEW SUMMARY REPORT:  See how teens would improve the educational system...

              Teens and Education

               
               Writing Contest for Teens about Food

              July 2010: FOOD - Do we have an obligation to take better care of ourselves by making changes in the way we eat and/or buy and consume food?

              Teen Trends:  How do teens feel about food, obesity and nutrition?

              TV shows like NBC's Biggest Loser are big hits and books like Michael Pollan's Food Rules are flying off the shelves.  Even film documentaries like Food, Inc. and Super Size Me have pushed into the mainstream consciousness.  It goes without saying a tipping point is occurring in our society's awareness in regards to people's relationship with food.  Obesity in America is reaching an epidemic...but are people ready or really willing to change?  Is our addiction to unhealthy food too hard to break?

              See how teens feel about food, obesity and nutrition...[this summary report is being pulled from the essay archive for posting here soon]

               
               Writing Contest for High School Students about College

              June 2010: COLLEGE - What is the most difficult thing (for you) about college?

              Teen Trends:  How do teens feel about college?

              We want to know what's making the college process or college itself difficult and why.  Financial aid?  Application process?  Juggling classes and work? What is making college difficult?  This contest was held in partnership with "Take America to College" initiative.

              See how teens feel about college...[this summary report is being pulled from the essay archive for posting here soon]

               
               Writing Contest for Teens about the Environment

              May 2010: ENVIRONMENT - What is one behavior you can either change or incorporate into your daily life that will reduce our negative impact on the environment?

              Teen Trends:  How do teens feel about the environment?

              The negative environmental impact and tragedy of lives lost from the BP off-shore oil rig disaster was obvious.  What we wanted from our high school and college students entering this month's writing contest was not their outrage about how this could have happened, but rather, share one solution (big or small) that can help combat man's ever-reaching environmental impact.

              See how teens feel about helping the environment...[this summary report is being pulled from the essay archive for posting here soon]

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