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Letter to Me: Teens write a personal note of inspiration

Letter to MeA New Chapter.  A Fresh Start.

This page is the official writing contest summary and results for our "Letter to Me" essay contest.

The start of a new school year presents the opportunity for students to have a fresh start.  We wanted to encourage teens and college students to sit down and write about their goals, fears, and other ideas for the upcoming year of their life.

This month's "Letter to Me" writing contest resulted in scores of unique essay submissions.  For those who submitted a letter, it will remind you about where your head was for the beginning of the school year, potentially providing you some direction as you progress throughout the year.  Our student writers and bloggers are encouraged to come back and to revisit their letter (we suggest you post the link to your essay on Facebook or somewhere so others can read it, too).


For our readers, we think you'll enjoy reviewing the below personal letters submitted to StageofLife.com as part of our "Letter to Me" writing contest.



From the Letter to Me essay contest, several themes and trends emerged:

Themes/Trends

School: Many teens wrote about the upcoming school year, and the potential hardships they may face. Some teens wrote about improving their grades; others wrote about conquering the overwhelming junior year. All in all, most teens agreed that this school year would be the best one yet.

Fear: Teens were afraid of what the future could bring: in school, after graduation, for relationships, for friends, for family members… Teens are scared to break the routine that has kept them comfort for many years. But overall, many teens know that they will be okay.

Self-Esteem: Teens touched on issues that related to how they felt about themselves. Some teens opened up about their eating disorders, addiction to self-harm, and other destructive behavior. These teens are searching for comfort, and the hope that things do get better.

Motivation: Many teens wrote letters to themselves to keep themselves motivated—among the many mantras were phrases like “achieve your dreams,” “keep it real,” and “never give up.” These teens are anxious to succeed; some teens even created a list of tips and tactics to help them achieve their many goals.


Essay Writers

During this writing contest period, our high school and writing contest pages saw 5,482 page views from 4,167 unique student visitors living in 72 countries and from all 50 US states that resulted in over 160 qualifying essays.

In the US, the top 12 states having teen visitors on the writing contest were:
1. California    
2. New York    
3. Texas    
4. Pennsylvania    
5. Florida    
6. New Jersey    
7. Ohio    
8. Tennessee
10. Illinois    
11. Georgia    
12. North Carolina



Letters

Immediately below, you'll find links to the StageofLife.com winning essay, our semi-finalists and over 160 other personal "Letters to Me" from college students and teenagers that wrote about their goals and fears for this upcoming school year.

Please take a few moments to read a letter or two. If you have the time, make a comment on the responses you enjoyed the most.  We know the student writers will love hearing your positive input (they'll get an email notifying them if you comment on their contest entry).

Student Writing Contest Winner


Winner: Letter to Me: Fight or Flight by sophtar (This teen has reached the year all of her teachers predicted she would fail)


Finalists:

  1. Letter to Me: Hee-Hee-Hee by bbontempo3 (Poetic piece about growing up)
  2. Letter to Me: The End by balugeffointe (This terminally ill teen contemplates life outside hospital walls)
  3. Letter to Me: Do I Know You? by bfurl (She wants to remain content)
  4. Letter to Me: Elizabeth Jorgensen by 29g8jorgense (She poetically recounts her boyfriend’s struggle with cancer)
  5. Letter to Me: An Attempted Note of Inspiration by kwolfgirl7 (She wants to change things, but doesn’t seem to think things will change)
  6. Letter to Me: Lost in Thought by lostwords1997 (This teen wants nothing more than to be a writer in NYC)
  7. Letter to Me: Dreams by charlotte.kazlauskas (“Find your water, and find your fish tail”)
  8. Letter to Me: Under the Sun by emilyhooker (This teen fondly remembers the summer, and the decisions she has made)
  9. Letter to Me: Keep It Real by dearmissjay (This teen plans on following her dream, even if it results in a low salary)
  10. Letter to Me: Fight or Flight by stareen (This teen has reached the year all of her teachers predicted she would fail)
  11. Letter to Me: Squishing the Sophomoric Stereotype by H. Slang (This teen wants to be seen as more than a sophomore)
  12. Letter to Me: Let’s Talk by JulianThomas (He recounts his struggle with school and obesity)
  13. Letter to Me: Self-Reliance by khwaish (This teen plans on following her dreams, no matter what)
  14. Letter to Me: New Perspective by kber322 (She compares her feelings about starting college with her grandmother’s feelings when she first started college)
  15. Letter to Me: Dance Like No One’s Watching by karli16 (She has overcome an addiction to chemical drugs, and wants to kick her junior year’s butt)
  16. Letter to Me: Uptight is so last season by dobohuck (This teen wants to spend less time studying, and more time having fun)
  17. Letter to Me: Rebelling Against Low Expectations by corinaballerina (A letter from Society, telling her not to try too hard)
  18. Letter to Me: Homework, Grades, and Dancing Pigs by eia12 (This teen wants to do well in her first year of high school)
  19. Letter to Me: A Year to Remember by crazy_purple_daisy_98 (After years of emotional torment, she will finally be graduating high school in June)
  20. Letter to Me: You’re not so small anymore by mbshorty2 (This teen gives herself survival tips for her upcoming sophomore year)
  21. Letter to Me: Just go with the flow by randomcat (This teen is drowning in stress)
  22. Letter to Me: Keep Calm and Carry On (Perhaps a Spot of Tea?) by iloveaparade (She learned that she can’t fix all of the world’s problems—even those in her own house)
  23. Letter to Me: The Chronicles of My High School Existence by star12345 (This teen is afraid to begin high school… again)       
  24. Letter to Me: The Dog Days Are Over by cade3lit (This teen reassures herself that the school year will not be as difficult as last year)
  25. Letter to Me: Winnie, my dear… by aeskis (She does not want to let her psychological conditions define her)
  26. Letter to Me: An Outcast in Reflection by lookingforanswers (This teen wants to spend her time as an “outcast” finding herself)
  27. Letter to Me: I Will Move On by LongviewLobo (This teen’s life was turned upside down after he entered a mental hospital in the middle of his freshman year)
  28. Letter to Me: A Snippet of Advice From Someone Who Knows You by tfam (This teen discovered that exercise can help defeat her depression)
  29. Letter to Me: But Which One? by Aria_Claiborne (This teen copes her “normality”)
  30. Letter to Me: Studying Your Own Shadow by writinglover777 (This teen wants to cherish every moment of her senior year)
  31. Letter to Me: A Life Like Cinderella by dulzwije (This teen has a three step plan to live a life like Cinderella)
  32. Letter to Me: Mental Hospital Fears by NCpollyCA (This teen struggles with an addiction to cutting)


    Aside from the finalists, we had a wide variety of teen writing contest entry letters.  We've categorized the responses.

    Self-Esteem

      Fear

      1. Letter to Me: Get Past the Fear of Uncertainty by riserthinking (This student is afraid to begin a grad program for psychology)
      2. Letter to Me: A day closer by chacon.kimberly (This teen is afraid for what the school year holds)
      3. Letter to Me: Christopher by Cdawg (He would like to make more friends this year)
      4. Letter to Me: Can We Handle a Change? by SamSlusher27 (She is beginning a new school, with new hopes and fears)
      5. Letter to Me: A Better Me by moonlistic (She withdrew from classes for fear of public speaking… and low self-esteem)
      6. Letter to Me: Letter to You by Sevendwarfs (This teen is feeling some anxiety about the new school year)
      7. Letter to Me: Order Made by Hiten-No-Rurouni (This teen fears procrastination will keep her from going to the college of her dreams)
      8. Letter to Me: Who’s Nervous and Giddy by mynameislynn (This teen is afraid to begin college)
      9. Letter to Me: The Chronicles of My High School Existence by star12345 (This teen is afraid to begin high school… again)
      10. Letter to Me: The Loss of Freedom by alangley (This teen is coming back to his old school, after leaving for a boarding school for a year)
      11. Letter to Me: Surfing the Wave by MissBrie (This teen will be moving to her fifth high school in January)
      12. Letter to Me: Live and Live Well by Ambryawna (“Don’t stress what you can’t change”)
      13. Letter to Me: Proposal by joseph92 (This teen plans on asking a big question)
      14. Letter to Me: Dear Sophomore Cierra by blueeyesoflove (This teen is dealing with grief, and wants to make it through a stronger person)
      15. Letter to Me: Fears vs Dreams by emmydear3 (She wants to remind herself that this year will be hard, but nothing she can’t handle)
      16. Letter to Me: You Need to Learn About Death by Serafina (This teen is terrified of death and the dying)
      17. Letter to Me by briansteiner94 (This teen suffered through a tough divorce)
      18. Letter to Me: Keep Calm and Carry On (Perhaps a Spot of Tea?) by iloveaparade (She learned that she can’t fix all of the world’s problems—even those in her own house)
      19. Letter to Me: Looking Back by prometheus1@hotmail.com (This teen worries if she will be as successful as she dreams she will be)
      20. Letter to Me: The start of something new by hellohello19 (This teen hopes to complete college and move on to make-up school)
      21. Letter to Me: Consider This… by amk (This teen is afraid for what lies ahead after college)
      22. Letter to Me: Just go with the flow by randomcat (This teen is drowning in stress)

      School

      1. Letter to Me: From Me to Myself by hfrank1997 (This teen writes his goals for the upcoming school year)
      2. Letter to Me: You’re not so small anymore by mbshorty2 (This teen gives herself survival tips for her upcoming sophomore year)
      3. Letter to Me: Junior Year by KCJONH04 (This teen wants to continue to do well in school to reach her goal of being an English teacher)
      4. Letter to Me: Don’t Forget by darlingmermaids (The future is unpredictable)
      5. Letter to Me: My Junior Year by drummajor13 (This teen is excited for the school year)
      6. Letter to Me: Ashlynn by Ashlynn.hirth (She is going to begin high school this year)
      7. Letter to me: I’m more than a transcript by lydialivas (This teen doesn’t want to be defined by her grades)
      8. Letter to Me: It’s gonna be a hell of a year by Sevendwarfs (This teen is bracing herself for high school)
      9. Letter to Me: You just entered the fast lane by Sevendwarfs (College is fast approaching for this teen)
      10. Letter to Me: Just a Reminder by theoneandonly (This teen wants to have a successful school year and social life)
      11. Letter to Me: Personal Motivation by WhiteandBlackKnight (This teen has a plan for college)
      12. Letter to Me: Necessary Roughness by rogrady28 (This teen messed up school last year, and plans on making up some lost ground)
      13. Letter to Me: Don’t Blink by Eloquence (This teen has big plans for National Honor Society)
      14. Letter to Me: Who You Were, Made You Who You Are by george_strait_girl_5 (She wants to continue to enjoy her high school career)
      15. Letter to Me: A Year to Remember by crazy_purple_daisy_98 (After years of emotional torment, she will finally be graduating high school in June)
      16. Letter to Me: Forgetting, Appreciating, and Looking by RoyRebirth (This teen wants to appreciate the school year—for all of its ups and downs)
      17. Letter to Me: Never Lose Your AAA by autumnleaves (This teen wants to focus on her AAA plan: attention, acceptance, authenticity)
      18. Letter to Me: This Year by Nies (This teen wants to do well in school, and have fun along the way)
      19. Letter to Me: Best believe I’m set to win; if you’re testing me, better think again by unkamenhero (This teen has made remarkable strides in high school, and wants to continue to succeed to make his family proud)
      20. Letter to Me: Think before you do by Melg29 (This teen wants to do better in school)
      21. Letter to Me: Beginning of Sixth Grade by paige01 (She has some tips to do well in middle school)
      22. Letter to Me: Homework, Grades, and Dancing Pigs by eia12 (This teen wants to do well in her first year of high school)
      23. Letter to Me: High School, Baby by nissylay (She is extremely excited for her first year of high school)
      24. Letter to Me: A Misguided Attempt to Make Sense by Fulloflife95 (This teen is ready for the daunting task of finding the right college)
      25. Letter to Me: Year of Opportunities by bhasha (This teen wants to achieve more and do better in school)
      26. Letter to Me: On the Verge of a Hurricane by redsoxandsun (This teen learned that school is like a hurricane)
      27. Letter to Me: Ninth Grade Looks Good on Me by Melinda (She is beginning ninth grade in a public school, after being homeschooled all her life)
      28. Letter to Me: Welcome to the Jungle… by DreamyGal (She is starting high school very soon, and is nervous for the changes)
      29. Letter to Me: A New Beginning by sk8terkid (This teen wants to make the most of her sophomore year)
      30. Letter to Me: The Year of Action by loganmarieh (This teen wants to do her homework during the school year)
      31. Letter to Me: Good Thing I Have You by PatriciaGrace (She doesn’t know what’s going to happen this year)
      32. Letter to Me: Tips To Me Self by Dwoods (This teen wants to be successful in college)
      33. Letter to Me by clairecalamaio (She wants to focus more on school, and less on relationships)
      34. Letter to Me: Embrace School by katie_selena (She gives herself tips to survive the school year)
      35. Letter to Me: Brittny by Brittny_kell (This teen wants to keep control in her junior year)
      36. Letter to Me: Un-Shrug Your Shoulders by jrcollins (This teen wants to take time to figure out his future for after high school)
      37. Letter to Me: Roller Coaster of Senior Year by jsommer34 (This teen compares her senior year to a roller coaster ride)

      Motivation

      1. Letter to Me: Fight to the Finish by icecream29 (It’s okay to fail, because eventually you will succeed)
      2. Letter to Me: Rebelling Against Low Expectations by corinaballerina (A letter from Society, telling her not to try too hard)
      3. Letter to Me: A Start for Change by mirralynn (She wants to establish a healthier school routine)
      4. Letter to Me: Change Education by StephanieWilliams72865 (She has a plan to help all teens do better in school)
      5. Letter to Me: I want to be… by mriganka (This teen has a long list of goals)
      6. Letter to Me: It’s Time to Go for it by Kmitch123 (This teen’s summer was rocked by her parent’s separation)
      7. Letter to Me: You can do it! by Superstar (She wants to try new things this school year—and regain her confidence)
      8. Letter to Me: Uptight is so last season by dobohuck (This teen wants to spend less time studying, and more time having fun)
      9. Letter to me: Platform of Dreams by glaciestempeste (Success is the ultimate goal)
      10. Letter to Me: Be Scared by paige.nikles (This teen wants to focus more on school, and less on boys)
      11. Letter to Me by be (This teen wants to publish a book this school year)
      12. Letter to Me: Dance Like No One’s Watching by karli16 (She has overcome an addiction to chemical drugs, and wants to kick her junior year’s butt)
      13. Letter to Me: Me and my best friend living inside me by sevas (This teen wants to move on from high school and achieve her dreams)
      14. Letter to Me: New Perspective by kber322 (She compares her feelings about starting college with her grandmother’s feelings when she first started college)
      15. Letter to Me: It’s Never Too Late by CrEaTiViTy42 (“There are lots of Sarahs in this school, but only one you”)
      16. Letter to Me: Life is Now by ALBryson (This teen wants to discover what she wants to do for the rest of her life)
      17. Letter to Me: Change the Present by ArThUr (This teen wants a successful transition to high school)
      18. Letter to Me: High School by TheDayTripper (This teen wants to continue having fun)
      19. Letter to Me: The Year of New Beginnings by bathpinkdog (She is starting a new school—as a “freshman” in junior year)
      20. Letter to Me: Self-Reliance by khwaish (This teen plans on following her dreams, no matter what)
      21. Letter to Me: Keep Dreaming by jk3 (She had made a list of goals she wants to accomplish this school year)
      22. Letter to Me: No Thank You by bubbles02494 (Her life is not finished yet, so she does not want to write a letter just yet)
      23. Letter to Me: Stories Unheard by checktheBECK10 (She hears everyone’s stories)
      24. Letter to Me: Squishing the Sophomoric Stereotype by H. Slang (This teen wants to be seen as more than a sophomore)
      25. Letter to Me: Let’s Talk by JulianThomas (He recounts his struggle with school and obesity)
      26. Letter to Me: You Can Do This! New Year, New You by m0nkygal66 (This teen wants to focus her potential into success)
      27. Letter to Me by gabbi.ezell (This teen wants to sharpen up for her senior year)
      28. Letter to Me: Struggles and Triumphs by echapperose (She lists all that she wants to accomplish this school year)
      29. Letter to Me: You’re Going Places, Kid by 11millera (This teen is starting college very soon, and wants to make the most out of the experience)
      30. Letter to Me by kmajors327 (She inspires herself to have the best possible year)
      31. Letter to Me by KymberHarp (This teen reminds herself of all the treasures she has in her life)
      32. Letter to Me by BritneeDailey (This teen gives herself tips from the future)
      33. Letter to Me: Get Ready by GPearson666 (This teen writes a letter from his future self)
      34. Letter to Me: Fight or Flight by stareen (This teen has reached the year all of her teachers predicted she would fail)
      35. Letter to Me: The Seeds You Plant Today, Will Be Tomorrow’s Fruit by titiana2012flax (This teen is ready to meet her potential)
      36. Letter to Me: Dear “Meh” by minichen97 (She wants to open up and make new friends)
      37. Letter to Me: Beginnings, Endings, and In-Betweens by wali21 (She wants to stop being such a hermit)
      38. Letter to Me: Keep It Real by dearmissjay (This teen plans on following her dream, even if it results in a low salary)

      Hope

      1. Letter to Me: Under the Sun by emilyhooker (This teen fondly remembers the summer, and the decisions she has made)
      2. Letter to Me: Envision, believe, and make it happen by gracekimeunyoung (This teen has learned to “never compromise”)
      3. Letter to Me: The depths of starting over and where I want to go… by SweetSerenity (She wants to compliment a different person every day)
      4. Letter to Me: The Year to Change by WriterJeanne (This is the year to “seize the day”)
      5. Letter to Me: He’ll Be There by LivyluvsJC (No matter her struggles, this teen finds strength in religion)
      6. Letter to Me: Things of the Past, Present, and Future by jessicaanne (This teen is looking forward to her family vacation, the new school year, and feeling “better”)
      7. Letter to Me: My compass of trail by Pinkaholic23 (A poem about how this teen wants to succeed)
      8. Letter to Me: Back in the Game! by alicia (Financial issues caused this teen’s grades to slip last semester)
      9. Letter to Me: Reliving Life by Writer Selbe (This teen wants to remember her past “mistakes” as choices, not mistakes)
      10. Letter to Me: Lost in Thought by lostwords1997 (This teen wants nothing more than to be a writer in NYC)
      11. Letter to Me: Dreams by charlotte.kazlauskas (“Find your water, and find your fish tail”)
      12. Letter to Me: A Life Like Cinderella by dulzwije (This teen has a three step plan to live a life like Cinderella)
      13. Letter to Me: Remember Hope by lopezjacqueline92 (She wants to remember that even when life seems hard, to never give up on her dreams)
      14. Letter to Me: Half A World From Home by brittany.tang (This teen has spent the past five years living overseas)
      15. Letter to Me: Promises by ds272411 (This teen made several promises to herself to keep herself on track during high school)
      16. Letter to Me: An Attempted Note of Inspiration by kwolfgirl7 (She wants to change things, but doesn’t seem to think things will change)
      17. Letter to Me by Kayla Brindley (This teen wrote a letter to her younger self)
      18. Letter to Me: High School by haminal (This teen has tips for her younger self’s old relationships)
      19. Letter to Me by kaylalarocks! (This teen wants to be successful)
      20. Letter to Me by dinahjenkins343 (This teen has a list of things she wants to accomplish)
      21. Letter to Me by z.king24 (This teen wants to continue to improve and “build herself”)
      22. Letter to Me by andrea.mercer (This teen wants to take risks and enjoy life)
      23. Letter to Me: A Lesson for Later by Recording (This teen has written down some relevant life quotes)
      24. Letter to Me: Elizabeth Jorgensen by 29g8jorgense (She poetically recounts her boyfriend’s struggle with cancer)
      25. Letter to Me: The Year to Hope by DeemaS (This teen wants to find happiness after her mother’s death)
      26. Letter to Me: Every Minute Counts by shenped04 (This teen wants to learn more about who her friends really are)
      27. Letter to Me by JUGGALETTE_JEDI (This teen wants to remember to be kind, and to show love more)
      28. Letter to Me: Do I Know You? by bfurl (She wants to remain content)
      29. Letter to Me: A Change for the Better by bbyxboodee (This teen has more responsibilities than her friends)
      30. Letter to Me: The End by balugeffointe (This terminally ill teen contemplates life outside hospital walls)
      31. Letter to Me: Live with Joy and Passion by likethemoon (This teen wants to “plant” her “empty field”)
      32. Letter to Me: What Truly Matters by mpoling2 (Love conquers all)
      33. Letter to Me: Studying Your Own Shadow by writinglover777 (This teen wants to cherish every moment of her senior year)
      34. Letter to Me: Hee-Hee-Hee by bbontempo3 (Poetic piece about growing up)


      Last Words: 

      We could not list all of the essays submitted for this contest, but we thank every student that participated in the Letter to Me essay contest.  To enter the current Stage of Life monthly writing contest for high school students and college students:

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      Stage of Life writing contest - teens and music 

      July & August 2012:  MUSIC - Share a story of a song that played an important role during a unique time in your life.

      Writing Contest Details:  Music plays an integral role in our lives.  There was the song that was playing in the background during that last slow dance on your first prom.  The song you listened to over and over after your first break-up.  Or the song you and your friends belted out at the top of your lungs one summer night around a campfire.

      We all have stories tied to songs that have become a part of who we are, thanks to those songs playing in the background during key moments and milestones of our lives.

      For our July and August writing contest, we want you to share a 300-500 word essay about how a particular song impacted you during an important time in your life.

      View Summary Report:  Teens and Music

      StageofLife.com Teen Trends: Teens and Music

       
       

      June 2012:  NATURE - How has nature inspired you?

      Writing Contest Details:  With summer upon us, students will find themselves out of school...and outside!  Or...will they?

      According to Richard Louv, author of Last Child in the Woods, today's children (and adults) are deprived of a basic necessity we have as humans...to connect with the outdoors.  Louv labels this phenomenon (that many saw happening but couldn't quite articulate): "nature-deficit disorder."

      Between jobs, Facebook, online gaming, or bad weather, many teens will forgo opportunities to feel the grass beneath their toes, to breath in a summer breeze, to let sun touch their skin, and to otherwise connect with the planet around them.

      But we know that can't be the case for everyone...can it?  Are we all experiencing nature-deficit?

      How has nature inspired you?

      View Summary Report: 
      Teens and Nature

      StageofLife.com Teen Trends: Teens and Nature

       
       National Teen Pregnancy Prevention Month May 2012:  TEEN PREGNANCY - What do you attribute to the decline of teen pregnancies?

      Writing Contest Details:  According to the latest teen pregnancy statistics from the CDC, U.S. teen birth rates are at an all time low.  But the last report still showed a total of 367,752 babies were born to teen girls aged 15–19.  In honor of May being National Teen Pregnancy Prevention Month, we want to hear from teens and college students about why they think teen pregnancies are dropping.

      What's the reason?  What's happening at your school or with your friends or in your community

      VIEW SUMMARY REPORT:  Teen Pregnancy Prevention

      StageofLife.com Teen Trends: Teen Pregnancy Prevention

       
       High School Writing Contest  

      April 2012:  MOVIES - What movie has made the biggest difference in your life?

      Writing Contest Details:  In honor of the hottest student movie ticket in town right now, "The Hunger Games" (based off the YA fiction novel of the same title by Suzanne Collins), we wanted to find out what films speak to teens and college students.

      Which movies inspire you? 

      VIEW SUMMARY REPORT: Teens and Movies

      Teen Trends: Movies

       
       Poetry Writing Contest

      March 2012:  POETRY - Dedicate a Poem to Someone Who Matters

      Writing Contest Details: In preparation for April’s National Poetry Writing Month, we are asking teens and college students to write a poem in dedication to someone who matters in their life.  Whether it is a family member, friend, teacher, celebrity or kind stranger, write an original poem about what that person means to you. 

      VIEW SUMMARY REPORT:  Teen Poems

      Teen Trends: Poetry

       
      Love Writing Contest 

      February 2012:  LOVE - What's Your Definition of Love?

        Writing Contest Details:  Teens and college students find themselves in an on-going dance as they court, woo, avoid, or try to win the romantic affections or attention of someone they like, admire...love.

        Consider these famous quotes about love...

        • "If you have it [love], you don't need to have anything else. If you don't have it, it doesn't matter much what else you have" --James M Barrie
        • "All we need is love."  --John Lennon
        • "Young love is a flame; very pretty, often very hot and fierce, but still only light and flickering. The love of the older and disciplined heart is as coals, deep-burning, unquenchable."  --Henry Ward Beecher
        • "Love is like pi -- natural, irrational, and very important." --Lisa Hoffman
        • "For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.   I can live without money, but I cannot live without love."  --Judy Garland
        • "Gravitation is not responsible for people falling in love."  --Albert Einstein
        • "If you can't be with one you love, love the one you're with."  --Stephen Stills

        It goes without saying that love can be either the happiest emotion or most tragic.  Just look at your parents.  Your grandparents.  Romeo and Juliet.  Or Kim Kardashian and Kris Humphries.  From happy to tragic to absurd, love runs the gamut.  But these platitudes are all relative, because love will always be different for everyone.  How can we pin down a definition of love?

        VIEW SUMMARY REPORT:  See what teens think of love...

        Teen Trends: Love

         
        Person to Watch Writing Contest 

        January 2012:  Person to Watch in 2012?

          Writing Contest Details:  Last month, TIME magazine named "The Protestor" their Person of the Year for 2011.  That got us thinking...okay, but who is the person to watch in 2012? 

          So, in looking back at the last 12 months and considering the future, who would you nominate as the Person to Watch for 2012, and why? 

          Whether it's a celebrity, an innovator, a politician, a cultural icon, an up-and-coming artist, a rising star or someone more personal in your life, we want to hear, in 500 words or less, who your Person to Watch for 2012 would be.

          VIEW SUMMARY REPORT:  See who teens chose as the Person to Watch in 2012

          Teen Trends: 2012 Person to Watch

           
           High School Writing Contest

          November & December 2011: AWARENESS - What issue or cause should receive its own "awareness" month?

          • "There is nothing wrong with change, if it is in the right direction.” -Winston Churchill
          • “The time is always right to do what is right.” -Martin Luther King, Jr.
          • “You must be the change you wish to see in the world.” -Mohatma Ghandi

            Details:  We saw NFL players wearing pink throughout October in honor of National Breast Cancer Awareness month.  We will pay tribute to the role of African-Americans throughout February during Black History month.  Now think about the topics on which you're passionate, and share your thoughts on a single issue or cause that should receive its own awareness month. 

            In your essay, please creatively tell us...

            • Is this a local, regional, national, international or planetary issue?
            • Why is this issue important?
            • Who does the issue impact?
            • How could the message be spread?
            • Are there any organizations, companies or blogs currently trying to make a difference to increase awareness on this issue?

            VIEW SUMMARY REPORT:  See what teens wrote about awareness

            Teen Trends: Awareness Issues

             
             High School Writing Contest

            October 2011:  TRUST & SAFETY - Do you trust our institutions to keep us safe?

              Details: As we look ahead to Halloween, there are scarier things than ghosts and goblins in the lives of today's teenagers and college students. 

              For instance, from a historical perspective, Baby Boomers grew up living under the threat of nuclear Armageddon, complete with classroom drills to hide under their desks in the case of nuclear attack.  However, today's teenagers and college students have been growing up in their own unique time: 

              • The threat of internet predators, cyber-bullying, and other online dangers.
              • The threat of school shootings and lock-downs.
              • The threat of terrorism.

              How do you, as a student, feel about these threats, and do you have trust in your parents, school or government (the major institutions around you) to keep you safe?

              VIEW SUMMARY REPORT:  See what teens wrote about trust and safety

              Teen Trends: Trust & Safetey

               
               High School Writing Contest

              September 2011:  EDUCATION - Teacher Appreciation essays

                Details:  It's the big back in school month.  You're either loving it, hating it, or experiencing a mixture of both.   In fact, some of you may already be waiting for final bell to ring (even if it's only 9:45am).  However, no matter how this year is starting out (good or bad), we know that there have been certain teachers and classes in the past that stand out in your mind...

                This month, think back to a favorite class or educator (teacher/coach/director/principal).  Whether it was their attitude, the way they taught, or a life lesson you learned from their class/sport/activity, how did this person make a positive impact in your life?

                VIEW SUMMARY REPORT:  See what teens wrote about their teachers.

                Teen Trends: Teacher Appreciation

                 
                 

                August 2011:  SELF-REFLECTION - Letter to Me

                  Details:  We want you to write a letter to yourself.  Yes, you heard us...a letter to yourself.  Take 15 minutes, alone, and spend some time thinking about the upcoming school year.  Think about the things you want to accomplish.  The things you fear.  Think about where you've been and where you're going.  Think about how your summer has been going.   What are you looking forward to?  What are you dreading about the return to school?  Think about your goals.  Think about if you're looking to make a big change this year...or simply survive? 

                  After all of that thinking, now write a "Letter to Me."  This is a letter addressed to yourself.  Tackle some of the topics we've outlined above...or get creative and come up with your own original angle for the letter.

                  VIEW SUMMARY REPORT:  See what teens had to write to themselves in our "Letter Me" writing prompt

                  Teen Trends: Letter to Me

                   
                   

                  July 2011:  BULLYING - Have you ever been bullied, teased, or picked on? If so, about what?

                  Details: Whatever you want to call it, bullying is a problem in many schools and continues to be a hot topic in the national press.  We've know many students experienced some form of bullying during high school.

                  Our writing contest question this month asks teens and college students to share their stories about being bullied or about being the bully. The student is then asked to write a short essay about that experience.

                  Were you once a bully who regrets it now?  Share your experiences with us and help prevent students from bullying others.

                  VIEW SUMMARY REPORT:  See what teens shared about being bullied.

                  Teen Trends: Bullying

                   
                   Teen Trends - Parent Interview Writing Contest

                  June 2011:  PARENTS - What is one thing you don't know about your Mother or Father?

                  Teen Trends:  How well do teens really know their parents?

                  Our writing contest question this month asks teens and college students to interview their parents and ask them to share ONE thing about themselves their son/daughter doesn't already know.  The student is then asked to write a short essay about that experience.

                  Did you learn something that shaped the way you think about your parent?  We call this contest the "Parent Paradigm Shift."
                   

                  VIEW SUMMARY REPORT:  See what teens learned about their parents...

                  Teen Trends: Parent Relationships

                   

                  May 2011:  OBSTACLES - What was the most difficult thing you overcame this school year?

                  Teen Trends:  What major obstacles stood in the way this school year?

                  From friends to family to graduation to grades to self esteem, teens go through a lot in a school year.  Tell us about one area or experience that caused you the most trouble, but that you were eventually able to overcome.

                  Help inspire another high school student to gain some courage to tackle or navigate their problem by sharing your experience.

                  VIEW SUMMARY REPORT:  See what challenges teenagers face today...  

                  Teen Trends: Challenges

                   
                   Teen Writing Contest about Prom

                  April 2011:  PROM - Is prom a positive or negative teen tradition?

                  Teen Trends: How do teens feel about prom?

                  Going to prom is a high school milestone, and prom traditions have been around for decades.  Dresses.  Dinner. DJ's.  Dancing.  For most teenagers, it's about celebrating life with friends and/or a significant other.  However, we've all heard the "negative" aspects often associated with prom too.  Drinking.  Drugs.  DUI's.  Damaged self-esteem.  Date rape.  So we want to know - is prom a positive or negative milestone.  

                  VIEW SUMMARY REPORT:  See how teens feel about prom...

                  Teen Trends: Prom

                   
                  Teen Trends and the Media

                  March 2011:  MEDIA - What form of media impacts your life the most, and why?

                  Teen Trends: How do teens feel about the media?

                  The "media" is an undeniably powerful entity in our daily lives, and even more invasive for teens and college students, a generation growing up with more forms of media choices than any other generation before them.

                  VIEW SUMMARY REPORT:  See how teens feel about the media...

                  Teen Trends: Media

                   
                  Writing Contest for Teens about Marriage

                  February 2011:  MARRIAGE - What is the value of marriage?

                  Teen Trends:  How do teens feel about marriage?

                  This contest came out in February 2011.  The month of love.  Valentine's Day sits right in the middle of this month and helps (or in some cases forces) all of us to pay homage to the idea of romance...love. We got little controversial this month and asked teens to share their point of view on marriage.

                  VIEW SUMMARY REPORT:  See how teens feel about marriage...

                   
                  Writing Contest for Teens about Making the World a Better Place

                  January 2011:  MAKE A DIFFERENCE - What organization, company, non-profit or 'cause' will help make the world a better place?

                  Teen Trends:  How do teens want to better the world?

                  Our mission on StageofLife.com is to help change the world, one story at a time.  What a better way to do that than to ask teens and college students about worthwhile causes we should all know about.  This was an opportunity for teens to shed light and share with us their favorite non-profit, company, organization or 'cause' that could help make the world a better place.

                  VIEW SUMMARY REPORT:  See how teens feel about making the world a better place...

                   
                  Writing Contest for High School Students about Money

                  December 2010:  MONEY - What is your relationship with money?  How do you spend (or save)...and why?

                  Teen Trends: How do teens feel about money?

                  Money....Cash.  Coin.  Greenbacks.  Pesos.  Gravy.  Deniro.  KaChing.  Moola.  So we're curious...how do teens and college students feel about money?  Whether the student knew a homeless teen or has a friend living in the penthouse, we wanted to know about their relationship with the almighty dollar.

                  VIEW SUMMARY REPORT:  See how teens feel about money...

                  Teen Trends: Money

                   
                  Writing Contest for Teenagers

                  November 2010:  GIVING THANKS - What are you most thankful for?

                  Teen Trends: What are teens grateful for?

                  This writing contest rolled out in November 2010.  We all get busy during the day-to-day routine of our lives, but it's important to stop once in while and reflect on what matters most, and to give thanks for that.  Keeping that in mind, we wanted to hear from teens about who or what, in their lives right now, should receive public acknowledgment of their thanks.

                  VIEW SUMMARY REPORT:  See for who and what teens are thankful...

                  Teen Trends: Thanksgiving

                   
                  Writing Contest about Stress and Teens

                  October 2010: TEEN STRESS -  What stresses you out, and how do you cope with that stress?

                  Teen Trends: How do students deal with stress?

                  From classes to homework to jobs to extra curricular activities to social outings, teens and college students are maintaining hectic schedules.  Add on top of that any current relationship hardships, social issues, e.g. bullying, illnesses or other personal problems and it's not surprising that many young people feel...stressed.

                  VIEW SUMMARY REPORT:  See how teens deal with stress...

                  Teens and Stress

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                  Who Is Your Hero?

                  September 2010:  HEROES - Who is your hero?

                  Teen Trends:  Who would a teenager name as their hero?

                  We wanted to talk about heroes, both big and small, with high school and college students.  We asked teens to name their hero, it could be a family member, someone famous, or an everyday person in their lives who is quietly making a difference, and then write a 500 word essay about that hero.  You'll love these responses.

                  VIEW SUMMARY REPORT:  See who teens nominated as their heroes...

                  Teen Heroes

                   
                  How Would Teens Improve Education?

                  August 2010: EDUCATION - What suggestion(s) do you have to make a positive change at your school or with the educational system as a whole?

                  Teen Trends: How would teens improve education?

                  We wanted to know how students were perceiving their educations, educational environments at their high schools, colleges and universities and the overall trends in education.  We asked the teens for ideas on how to improve the educational environment.

                  VIEW SUMMARY REPORT:  See how teens would improve the educational system...

                  Teens and Education

                   
                   Writing Contest for Teens about Food

                  July 2010: FOOD - Do we have an obligation to take better care of ourselves by making changes in the way we eat and/or buy and consume food?

                  Teen Trends:  How do teens feel about food, obesity and nutrition?

                  TV shows like NBC's Biggest Loser are big hits and books like Michael Pollan's Food Rules are flying off the shelves.  Even film documentaries like Food, Inc. and Super Size Me have pushed into the mainstream consciousness.  It goes without saying a tipping point is occurring in our society's awareness in regards to people's relationship with food.  Obesity in America is reaching an epidemic...but are people ready or really willing to change?  Is our addiction to unhealthy food too hard to break?

                  See how teens feel about food, obesity and nutrition...[this summary report is being pulled from the essay archive for posting here soon]

                   
                   Writing Contest for High School Students about College

                  June 2010: COLLEGE - What is the most difficult thing (for you) about college?

                  Teen Trends:  How do teens feel about college?

                  We want to know what's making the college process or college itself difficult and why.  Financial aid?  Application process?  Juggling classes and work? What is making college difficult?  This contest was held in partnership with "Take America to College" initiative.

                  See how teens feel about college...[this summary report is being pulled from the essay archive for posting here soon]

                   
                   Writing Contest for Teens about the Environment

                  May 2010: ENVIRONMENT - What is one behavior you can either change or incorporate into your daily life that will reduce our negative impact on the environment?

                  Teen Trends:  How do teens feel about the environment?

                  The negative environmental impact and tragedy of lives lost from the BP off-shore oil rig disaster was obvious.  What we wanted from our high school and college students entering this month's writing contest was not their outrage about how this could have happened, but rather, share one solution (big or small) that can help combat man's ever-reaching environmental impact.

                  See how teens feel about helping the environment...[this summary report is being pulled from the essay archive for posting here soon]

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