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Definition of Love

Teens and Love - Writing Contest Results and Data

Teens Define Love

Teens and college students find themselves in an on-going dance as they court, woo, avoid, or try to win the romantic affections or attention of someone they like, admire...love.  We asked over 800 teens and college students aged 14-19 to take our "love" poll and then define love via a 500 word essay.

From the data, we learned some interesting things about teens' attitudes towards love such as...

  • 70% of teens believe in true love (one perfect person for them)
  • 19% of teens are hesitant about marriage due to concerns over the possibility of divorce
  • 41% of teens feel that their parents set a BAD example for love
  • Most teens have parents who say "I love you," but 17% of teens say their parents do NOT tell them they love them.
  • and more (see stats section below)

From the essays, we received a wide variety of both positive and negative love definitions ranging from descriptions on the many types of love, the observation that love hurts, and insights into the hard reality that sometimes people can be blinded by love. 

From all the essays submitted, five trends emerged...


Teen Trends / Themes:

  1. What is Love?: A significant number of teens titled their essays “What is love?” While some reached definitive answers from their speculations on love, many did not. Love is a mysterious, but alluring, emotion.
  2. “All You Need is Love”: Most teens can’t wait to fall in love. Love is magic, love is warmth, and love makes you feel better no matter what.  These teens agreed that love is worth the risk of heart break.
  3. Love is Complicated: On the other hand, love isn’t as easy and carefree as some people think; love requires listening, friendship, and compromise.
  4. Love Hurts: Some were jilted by love; bad break-ups, rejection, and heart break inspired these teens to say that love doesn’t exist, or that not everyone finds love.
  5. Different Types of Love: Love comes in all forms—your family, your friends, your partner, your passion, and even your favorite objects; puppy love, romantic love, sexual love, and true love. Teens agreed that it doesn’t matter who or what you love as long as love makes you better.


Stats: 

Here's how over 800 teens answered our survey questions about love.  The numbers after each statement represent a) the total unique votes and b) the percentage of teens who felt that way...

Do Teens Believe in True Love?

  • I believe in one true love (one perfect person for me):    481    70.01%
  • I don't believe in true love (there are multiple choices of partners out there for me):    206    29.99%
  • Total:    687    100.00%

        
Do Teens Want Marriage?

  • I will get married someday:    556    73.16%
  • I am hesitant about marriage because I fear divorce:    147    19.34%
  • I will never get married:    57    7.50%
  • Total:    760    100.00%

        
Are Teens in Relationships?

  • I am in a relationship now:    184    20.65%
  • I am not in a relationship now:    442    49.61%
  • I've never been in a relationship:    265    29.74%
  • Total:    891    100.00%

        
Do Teens Feel Their Parents Set a Good Example for Love?

  • My parents set a good example for love:    334    59.01%
  • My parents set a bad example for love:    232    40.99%
  • Total:    566    100.00%

        
Do Parents Tell Their Teenage Children They Love Them?

  • My parents tell me they love me:    556    82.99%
  • My parents may love me, but they don't ever say it:    114    17.01%
  • Total:    670    100.00%


The Essays: 

Immediately below, you'll find featured links to the StageofLife.com winning essay, our semi-finalists and over 100 other Definition of Love essays from college students and teenagers that defined love.

Please take a few moments to read an essay or two. If you have the time, make a comment on the responses you enjoyed the most.  We know the student writers will love hearing your positive input (they'll get an email notifying them if you comment on their contest entry).

Student Writing Contest Winner


Winner: My Definition of Love: It’s The Magician’s Favorite Trick by MadisonRubert (Love is always tailored to yourself)

Runners Up:

  • My Definition of Love: Love is the Exception by steviegreek (Young love doesn’t have to end)
  • My Definition of Love: What if? by MikkiB326

Finalists:

  1. My Definition of Love: A Reality Check by CornyBones (Her brother raised her)
  2. My Definition of Love: Love Everyone As You Love Yourself by REENA (Love means helping others, especially those in our “international family”)
  3. My Definition of Love: Me, Myself, and I by brandy_perc (We need to love ourselves before we love other people)
  4. My Definition of Love: I Love You to Death by corinaballerina (Love is about “us”)
  5. My Definition of Love: The Heart  by glide2277 (The heart is the body’s most important organ)
  6. My Definition of Love: What if? by MikkiB326 (Stop questioning love)
  7. My Definition of Love: Love is… by jyang10510 (Love is not complicated—either you love him, or you don’t)
  8. My Definition of Love: The Story Unfolds by pcemaker44 (Love takes its own course of action)
  9. My Definition of Love: Unbreakable Bonds by FChimaS (To fall in love, you must first be friends)
  10. My Definition of Love: Love is the Exception by steviegreek (Young love doesn’t have to end)
  11. My Definition of Love: Essential by Noraloveswriting (There are many different types of love that no one talks about)
  12. My Definition of Love: Just four letters by ElDavo (Love has no defintion)
  13. My Definition of Love: It’s The Magician’s Favorite Trick by MadisonRubert (Love is always tailored to yourself)
  14. My Definition of Love: It Rarely Exists in this Teenage Wasteland by laurelelyse52 (It is impossible to fall in love in high school)
  15. My Definition of Love: Mental scars and emotional bruises galore by Hatman (This teen’s mother fed her a hopeless view of love)
  16. My Definition of Love: A Sadistic Dictator by Maddibon (Personification of evil love)
  17. My Definition of Love: Learning To Let Go by jaqpratt (She gave her son—her love—up for adoption)
  18. My Definition of Love: Love is When You Finally Become a Home by OrangeZo (Poetry-prose about finding love)
  19. My Definition of Love: It’s like the Sun by JeremyQuach (Love burns bright like the sun)


Aside from the finalists, we had a wide variety of teen writing contest entry essays about the Person to Watch in 2012.  We've categorized the responses below:

Positive:


Family Love

  1. My Definition of Love: A Reality Check by CornyBones (Her brother raised her)
  2. My Definition of Love: Is Purely Everything by shrienrox (Family is the most important to love)
  3. My Definition of Love: Love Everyone As You Love Yourself by REENA (Love means helping others, especially those in our “international family”)
  4. My Definition of Love: Pain by potaetoandhamm (This teen reflects on her mother)
  5. My Definition of Love: For those who deserve it by komila singh arneja (This love loves her parents)
  6. My Definition of Love: Happiness, shared by Mcastillo0415 (Family love is unconditional)
  7. My Definition of Love: Sometimes You Take What You Have For Granted Until It’s Gone by Kody2255 (This teen loves his high school)
  8. My Definition of Love: It’s all about behind the scenes by lbru93 (This teen’s mom cared for his father after his father suffered a stroke)

Love Yourself

  1. My Definition of Love: Me, Myself, and I by brandy_perc (We need to love ourselves before we love other people)
  2. My Definition of Love: I Am Loving Me by briannabre (This teen loves herself)
  3. My Definition of Love: Loving You Is Easy ‘Cause You’re… Beautiful? by D.Monea (It is extremely important to love yourself)
  4. My Definition of Love: Experience by wittygirl8 (Love means forgiveness)
  5. My Definition of Love: Bliss of Comfort by Davincio11 (Love is having comfort in your life)

Religious Love

  1. My Definition of Love: Where I Find My Self-Worth by agemery (This teen knows how to love God)
  2. My Definition of Love: Giving Without Expecting to Receive by AlliNerdWorm421 (Musings on love and marriage from a Biblical standpoint)
  3. My Definition of Love: It Is What It Is by D.Monea (Jesus loves all)
  4. My Definition of Love: What is Love? by Devyn Font (Church molded her views on love)
  5. My Definition of Love: An experience worth dying for in its right time by lorena (An African teen’s perspective on love)
  6. My Definition of Love: What Is My Truth In Love? lindseyhkid (“God is love”)
  7. My Definition of Love: 1 Corinthians 13:4-8 by Linzey08 (This teen has been in love twice)
  8. My Definition of Love: It’s not lust, and it’s very confusing by Feathered-Pen (God gives the greatest love)

Love is “Everything”

  1. My Definition of Love: Enduring Until the End by dreamhigh41 (Love is commitment)
  2. My Definition of Love: Sometimes love is worth all the drama by BabyGirl (Love is always worth it)
  3. My Definition of Love: The Next Day by Mildstart (Without love, we would be empty)
  4. My Definition of Love: A Feeling of Fulfillment by Loki (Love is nourishment, like food)
  5. My Definition of Love: The Ever-Burning Flame by JennaH (Love means sacrifice)
  6. My Definition of Love: Not Symbiosis by Papples (“Love is going beyond what is expected of you”)
  7. My Definition of Love: I Love You to Death by corinaballerina (Love is about “us”)
  8. My Definition of Love: An echo of the past, present, and future by Ayaz0408 (Love will inspire you)
  9. My Definition of Love: What Makes Humans Beautiful by litunleashed21 (“Love teaches us to defy our nature”)
  10. My Definition of Love: A Loss for Words by amanda.tucker (Words for a loved one never seem to be enough)
  11. My Definition of Love: A risk worth taking by Hazelnutt (Love is the most endearing emotion)
  12. My Definition of Love: Unraveling Yourself by Akimbo (Love requires you to give all of yourself)
  13. My Definition of Love: The Heart  by glide2277 (The heart is the body’s most important organ)
  14. My Definition of Love by emilyt98 (“Love will happen to everyone”)
  15. My Definition of Love: What if? by MikkiB326 (Stop questioning love)
  16. My Definition of Love: Eternity by emmgr2 (Love is trust, respect, and understanding)
  17. My Definition of Love: Love is… Or My Love to Mr. X by CatttaStrophe (This teen found love)
  18. My Definition of Love by domenick2012 (Love is healthy)
  19. My Definition of Love: What is love? by Kbaynard (Love is highly misunderstood)
  20. My Definition of Love: Real Love by ttt (Lust is much different than love)
  21. My Definition of Love: What love is by kmoney817 (Love has multiple meanings)
  22. My Definition of Love: It awakens the soul by taylorrrrfitz (Love makes you feel infinite)
  23. My Definition of Love: Whatever It Is: I Don’t Wanna Mess It Up by D.Monea (Poem to her lover)
  24. My Definition of Love: Don’t be afraid to fall in love by writing is my life(: (If you see yourself with a positive future, then it is love)
  25. My Definition of Love: It is Always There by wlaff (True love compliments your personality)
  26. My Definition of Love: Love is… by jyang10510 (Love is not complicated—either you love him, or you don’t)
  27. My Definition of Love: It’s Out There Somewhere by caitiecat97 (Love belongs to everyone)
  28. My Definition of Love: Forever by saraskirvin (Love is not sex)
  29. My Definition of Love: From a Girl’s Perspective by ImaniiMojadidi (Love as seen from this teen’s point of view)
  30. My Definition of Love: It’s really up to you! by X0Jennyfer0X (Love is magic)
  31. My Definition of Love: Everyone needs it in their lives by Katie75 (Love means everything to everyone)
  32. My Definition of Love: Timeless by oreilly.arielle (Love is not seeing yourself without that person in the future)
  33. My Definition of Love: Risking everything for a chance for something indescribable by candysk8ergal (Love is worth the risk of heartbreak)
  34. My Definition of Love by SimoneBittencourt (Love is acceptance)
  35. My Definition of Love: Endearment by MA_Cheers (Love is an international language)
  36. My Definition of Love: Ambrosial by petrichord (Love is like whiskey)
  37. My Definition of Love: Scary by victoriahas (Love is scary, but exciting)
  38. My Definition of Love: The Story Unfolds by pcemaker44 (Love takes its own course of action)
  39. My Definition of Love: Magical by lacy (Love cannot be replaced)
  40. My Definition of Love: A Selfless Toothbrush by amoeba (Stories about love)
  41. My Definition of Love: The birdhouses by yiyijessicali (This teen rescued an injured sparrow)
  42. My Definition of Love: Mystifying Bliss by 1sebny25 (It is not possible to control when you fall in love)


Young Love

  1. My Definition of Love: Unbreakable Bonds by FChimaS (To fall in love, you must first be friends)
  2. My Definition of Love: Love is the Exception by steviegreek (Young love doesn’t have to end)
  3. My Definition of Love: Us Against the World by Tadpole30 (This teen recently fell in love)
  4. My Definition of Love: You’ll Eventually Find the One by Niki S (This teen has been in love twice)
  5. My Definition of Love: Love is You by D.Monea (This teen was jilted by the person she loves)
  6. My Definition of Love: You Know It When It Happens by mmbeute (This teen knows ze is in love)
  7. My Definition of Love: Believing in That Day by fruittreeinwinter (This teen unexpectedly fell in love)
  8. My Definition of Love: A swaying heart by cat7 (This teen has loved before)
  9. My Definition of Love: Love by wolfee (Teens shouldn’t depend on the media for perspectives on love)
  10. My Definition of Love: True Love by vares2012 (Unconditional love is rare)
  11. My Definition of Love: Complicated, but worth it by emilybickle (This teen is in love with her best friend)
  12. My Definition of Love: What is love? by allisonrogers19 (Love is a wonderful, and sometimes heartbreaking, experience)
  13. My Definition of Love: It comes in many forms by alex1100gp (This teen is in love—with a fictional character)


Love Varies

  1. My Definition of Love: It’s the most powerful by Jessica101 (“Love is defined in many ways to a person”)
  2. My Definition of Love: Essential by Noraloveswriting (There are many different types of love that no one talks about)
  3. My Definition of Love: Love is a part of life by kilew519 (“Without love, there would be nothing”)
  4. My Definition of Love: An Emotion of Emotions by SpectacularShamwow (Love is carelessly tossed around these days)
  5. My Definition of Love: Love yourself by vrn1998 (The most important love is to love yourself)
  6. My Definition of Love: Just four letters by ElDavo (Love has no defintion)
  7. My Definition of Love: It Will Never, Ever Fade by justme13 (If you truly love someone, it doesn’t matter if you are with that person or not)
  8. My Definition of Love: Love is… by kmwilliams9412 (The media tries to ruin our view of love)
  9. My Definition of Love: The Search for Something REAL by mia.williams10 (Love is not Disney)
  10. My Definition of Love: What is love? by Dreamer101 (Love is complicated)
  11. My Definition of Love: A Priceless Element by Jim H. (Love is unselfish loyalty)
  12. My Definition of Love: Endless Possibilities by Yuliana (Love is like a butterfly…)
  13. My Definition of Love: Smoothing Out Rough Edges by Nora (You have to find the person worth “suffering” for)
  14. My Definition of Love: Love is Indescribable by GameFreakk0289 (Love is too hard to describe)
  15. My Definition of Love: What is Love? by LaurenTatiana (The love you feel for your dog is much different than the love you feel for your husband)
  16. My Definition of Love: It Is Essential by musiicislove (Humans are designed to want and need affection)
  17. My Definition of Love: Something we cannot live without by Catalin (If we all love, we have nothing to lose)
  18. My Definition of Love: There’s someone out there for everyone by Munchkin_x3 (This teen describes different levels of love)
  19. My Definition of Love: Indefinable by Takashi (Love in Asian cultures versus love in American culture)
  20. My Definition of Love: What is love? by cwalls1994 (Love is everywhere)
  21. My Definition of Love: The feeling is everywhere by kmorris424 (Love comes in many forms)
  22. My Definition of Love: A life filled with hopes and dreams by esoojungk (People overuse the word love)
  23. My Definition of Love: It’s Not Just a Feeling by karolinamazing (There are two types of love: Affectionate and Romantic)
  24. My Definition of Love: Puzzle Pieces by ciaobella14 (Love isn’t limited to human to human)


Friendship Love

  1. My Definition of Love: A hand by Mildstart (A boy in kindergarten showed her how to face “darkness”)
  2. My Definition of Love: My Soul Mate is My Best Friend by JulietfoundherRomeo (It is important to be friends with your lover)
  3. My Definition of Love by lasheeraj (Knowing you who date will keep you together longer)
  4. My Definition of Love: How to Love by Kassidy95 (Love and friendship go hand in hand)
  5. My Definition of Love: More Than a Box of Chocolates by Morg66 (Love occurs over time)
  6. My Definition of Love: How You Cannot Live Without It by Nicole03 (Love is the strongest emotion)
  7. My Definition of Love: Love is naked by Linettelepore (Love is showing someone the ugliest side of yourself and they still think you’re beautiful)
  8. My Definition of Love: A bond between two people by Kayla_Perry12 (Friendship is a key bond)
  9. My Definition of Love: The Ultimate Decision by aburch23 (Love is teamwork)
  10. My Definition of Love: A Journey Fueled by Hope, Dedication, and Passion by Calamity18 (This teen overcame insecurity to make friends)

Love is Science

  1. My Definition of Love: A Verb After Verbs by riserthinking (Scientist Helen Fisher searched for the scientific reasons for love)
  2. My Definition of Love: It’s a yearning deep in your heart by drakiac (Love isn’t something you can rationalize)


Media & Love

  1. My Definition of Love: My Lover and My Best Friend by vballgirl (The media sets a poor example of what love really is about)
  2. My Definition of Love: Hollywood is destroying love by jkang2014 (Twilight and other big movies skew what love really is)
  3. My Definition of Love: It’s The Magician’s Favorite Trick by MadisonRubert (Love is always tailored to yourself)
  4. My Definition of Love: Anything but Melodramatic by ashley.lee.0228 (Love is like playing the organ)
  5. My Definition of Love: An Undervalued Entity by ayyylexis14 (Love is more than the physical)
  6. My Definition of Love: Who Knows? by darlingmermaids (This teen understands love from the media: television, books, and internet)
  7. My Definition of Love: Three Little Words by volleyball97 (The media tries to convince teens they don’t know what love is)
  8. My Definition of Love: A Fairy Tale Ending by alyciamolina (This teen wants a love like Cinderella)


Love is Complicated

Positive:

  1. My Definition of Love: Love is the antidote to the numbness of the heart by sbendernagel1 (Love is worth the risk)
  2. My Definition of Love: Fahrenheit by DreamsWings16 (Love is an emotional roller coaster)
  3. My Definition of Love: Till death do us part by A.C West (This teen’s grandparents are a good example of love)
  4. My Definition of Love: Love as a Perspective by Tony1126 (Love is like a drug)
  5. My Definition of Love: Like Life, It’s What You Make It by niakmat (Love evolves as you age)

Negative:

  1. My Definition of Love: Something Different For All by OhMikaylahh (Teenage love is complicated)
  2. My Definition of Love: The Truth by xoxoanniec (Love isn’t supposed to hurt)
  3. My Definition of Love: Five Years by twinkleeye (She has been with her boyfriend for five years… and she isn’t sure why)
  4. My Definition of Love: Not All Can Have It by StarshipRanger (Not everyone finds love)
  5. My Definition of Love: Love is blind by mmjennifermm (Love doesn’t make you think logically)
  6. My Definition of Love: I should Believe but I Don’t by Manna_7 (This teen doesn’t believe in love)
  7. My Definition of Love: My love essay by kasandra (We can’t help who we love)
  8. My Definition of Love: Keeping it in the Family by Hadadie (This teen’s family has a cycle of poor marriages)


Negative Essays About Love:


Sex & Love

  1. My Definition of Love: A Story of Opposites by tcombs1 (Love is not intertwined with sex)
  2. My Definition of Love: It Rarely Exists in this Teenage Wasteland by laurelelyse52 (It is impossible to fall in love in high school)
  3. My Definition of Love: Real love hurts by kelley11z (This teen was jilted by love)


Love Hurts

  1. My Definition of Love: Those Three Words Can Kill You by SabrinaKnap (More often than naught, love ends in pain)
  2. My Definition of Love: There are many types of love by tylerpavlicek (Unless your love is returned, love is torture)
  3. My Definition of Love: Something of Great Magnitude and Gravity by HarvardGirl314 (Love is founded in lies, and often results in despair)
  4. My Definition of Love: So Love Is… Oh, I didn’t know that by D.Monea (Love isn’t great all the time)
  5. My Definition of Love: A deadly monster by mitchelpham97 (Love destroys us)
  6. My Definition of Love: Mental scars and emotional bruises galore by Hatman (This teen’s mother fed her a hopeless view of love)
  7. My Definition of Love: Only Time Will Tell by daily123 (Multi-lingual poem about losing a love)
  8. My Definition of Love: A Sadistic Dictator by Maddibon (Personification of evil love)
  9. My Definition of Love: Love leads to heartbreak by KobeAsiedu (This teen was jilted by the girl of his dreams… literally)
  10. My Definition of Love by Lamiya Muslumova (Love breaks hearts)
  11. My Definition of Love: Dandelion by student (Love is like a weed)


Media & Love

  1. My Definition of Love: No meaning in today’s society by thefashionrookie (The media dilutes our vision of love)
  2. My Definition of Love: It Has Lost Its True Meaning by Buddhist Spaceman (Love is overused in today’s society)
  3. My Definition of Love: A Gritty, Absurd, Excruciating, Unreasonable Necessity (With Malt Vinegar) by Ebullient (Love is an affliction)


Neutral:


Love is Complicated

  1. My Definition of Love: It’s Eternal by arias3 (This teen both doubts love, and believes in love)
  2. My Definition of Love: Love as sight and frame of reference by Personageguy (Love is special, but not perfect)
  3. My Definition of Love by briannabre (If love really existed, there would be no such thing as hate)
  4. My Definition of Love: Having Courage by mani6 (Love is both happiness and despair)
  5. My Definition of Love: How to define love by adechello96 (She is scared to fall in love, but knows it will be great when it happens)
  6. My Definition of Love: A Feeling, Falling in and Stuck In by serestar101 (Love can make you feel good, but it can also make you feel awful)
  7. My Definition of Love: Love is Love by duhveekuh (Love makes you feel every emotion)
  8. My Definition of Love: Undeniably Unpredictable by Jamie Renee (Sometimes love works, sometimes it doesn’t)
  9. My Definition of Love: Overlooked and Overthought by Kat908 (How can you fall in love if you don’t believe in love?)
  10. My Definition of Love: Russian Roulette by monica.guerra (We can never know how love will end)
  11. My Definition of Love: A mind trip by Crajer14 (Love is like taking LSD)
  12. My Definition of Love: An Indefinable Word by MKoessel (We know almost nothing about love)
  13. My Definition of Love: Choosing Others by Jacen (Love is a choice)
  14. My Definition of Love: It’s a magic show by sawani (Love is the best trick of all)


Media & Love

  1. My Definition of Love: Love: Only Few Know The Real Meaning by skyegirl07 (Several outlets influence how teens view love)
  2. My Definition of Love: Different Ways to Love by OCinthya (The media teaches us about love)


Love Varies

  1. My Definition of Love: Are there two sides of it? by dirtbikegirl (Love is different for everyone)
  2. My Definition of Love: Not the same for everyone by jbrunner (Everyone feels differently about love)
  3. My Definition of Love: The Undefinable by kristanie (People want love very badly)
  4. My Definition of Love: Affection by kmurphy91 (Affection triumphs all love)
  5. My Definition of Love: Not Too Shallow by TheLovedoctor32 (Does true love really exist?)
  6. My Definition of Love: Bittersweet by Gavin04415 (Love is important—it can make you feel better, or worse)
  7. My Definition of Love: Love potion: Good or bad? Nobody knows by Christian Juarez (Love is a different experience for everyone)
  8. My Definition of Love: I’ll do anything for it by l337luke (Love means different things to different people)
  9. My Definition of Love: Love Essay by Trae` (Love is affection)
  10. My Definition of Love by emma (Love is attraction)
  11. My Definition of Love: Love makes you happy by chaewon8833 (This teen describes different types of love)
  12. My Definition of Love: It’s Different for Everybody by bookworm98 (Love has no definition)
  13. My Definition of Love: Attachment by ssssssj (Love is a “ticklish feeling”)
  14. My Definition of Love: The word the world runs on by sarah_benamara96 (Love is forever changing)
  15. My Definition of Love: Hope by klobes (“If you believe you are in love you are”)


Love is Hard Work

  1. My Definition of Love: It’s An Action, Not An Emotion by agemery (Love is hard work)
  2. My Definition of Love by sanyukta (“Love is a fight sealed with a kiss”)
  3. My Definition of Love: Love is All You Need, Right? …Right? by redfanta4 (Love doesn’t last as long as it used to)
  4. My Definition of Love: Love and its Makings by shadowbloom1 (Sometimes you can’t be sure if you’re in love)
  5. My Definition of Love: Learning To Let Go by jaqpratt (She gave her son—her love—up for adoption)
  6. My Definition of Love: It’ll have you going through thick, thin, or thicker by sasha ferce (This teen hates the aftermath of love)
  7. My Definition of Love: The Indestructible Attraction between the North and South Poles by GonewitheWindXD (Love is indescribable)
  8. My Definition of Love: Something Outside of Romance by artfreak889 (Love is not the same as simple romance)
  9. My Definition of Love: The phenomenon with infinite possibilities by louisa (Love is tremendously confusing)


Love is Far Away

  1. My Definition of Love: True Love is a Fantasy by atdavis2013 (You can find love with many different people)
  2. My Definition of Love: Love is When You Finally Become a Home by OrangeZo (Poetry-prose about finding love)
  3. My Definition of Love: A Black Hole: Endless and Unknown by Vianca29 (The relationships around her have fallen apart)
  4. My Definition of Love: The Greatest, Strongest, Most Intense Emotion by QuietHearts (Love is not perfect)
  5. My Definition of Love: It’s like the Sun by JeremyQuach (Love burns bright like the sun)


 


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April 2013 National Writing Contest:  What Current National or International News Story Do You Think More Teens and College Students Should Care About, and Why?


Writing Contest Details:  There is a LOT going on in the news.  For instance, the day we posted this April 2013 monthly writing contest, we saw headlines for news stories on the following topics...

Nuclear armed North Korea's aggressive militaristic talk, North Dakota passes most restrictive abortion bill in US history, US Supreme Court debates gay marriage, Cyprus Banks and Economic issues in the Euro Zone, Pope includes women for first time in Holy Thursday rite, US Senate group resolves key immigration issues to move ahead with overhaul of US immigration policy, China's losing battle against polluters, Obama makes impassioned plea for gun control legislation, NCAA Basketball Tournament enters Final 4, Obamacare...and many others.

Keeping these news headlines (and others you may have recently read, seen, or heard in mind), our question this month was..."What current news story or event should teens and college students care about...and why?"

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March 2013 National Writing Contest:  When have you applied the phrase "No Fear" in your life?


Writing Contest Details:  Every teenager or college students has fears.  Some are things you can touch, like snakes.  Some are situations you want to avoid, like public speaking or test taking.  Some come from childhood stories, like ghosts or monsters.  And some fears are things that unfortunately find us, like terrorism, natural disasters, or cancer.  

However, we can't live in the shadows of our fears everyday.  To do so would dishonor the act of living.

So this month, the Stage of Life national writing contest prompt is simple:  "As a teen or college student, how have you applied the phrase "No Fear" in your life?"

Teens and Fear - StageofLife.com student writing contest

 
 Student Writing Contest - Favorite TV Shows February 2013 National Writing Contest:  Why Can't You Turn Away From Your Favorite TV Show?

Writing Contest Details:  It's winter, and we're in the middle of a new season of TV programming (as most of you know who have been fervently waiting for your favorite shows to begin again).

For good or bad, people everywhere are spending more time indoors right now, plopped down in front of the warm glow of their favorite television shows.  Glee.  Breaking Bad.  Mad Men.  The Bachelor.  The Super Bowl.  American Idol.  Boardwalk Empire.  Nashville.  Survivor.  Downton Abby.  Homeland.  Modern Family.  And the list goes on.

Whether you love Golden Globe nominated TV programming found on the cable channels or the popular reality TV series found on all of the major networks, we want to know what one TV show makes you stop in your tracks, put on your cozy clothes, and jump up on the couch for 30-60 minutes of "me" time.


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Gun Rights vs. Gun Control - Where do we go after Newtown? 

January 2013 National Writing Contest:  Where do we go after Newtown?

Writing Contest Details: What solutions, if any, would you propose to Congress, parents, school officials, gun advocacy groups, or the NRA after the tragic event in Newtown this last December? 

Or, on a more emotional level, how do you simply feel about this event and what changes, if any, did it make in you?

And for everyone...where do we go from here??

View our Writing Contest Summary on Teens and Guns.

Teens and Guns - StageofLife.com student writing contest

 
Teens and Body Image
 

December 2012 Writing Contest:  How will you be the change in 2013?


Writing Contest Details:  In looking towards 2013, we want to hear how you will "be the change." This open-ended writing contest question can be addressed in a 500-word essay in one of three ways:

1.  On a philosophical level, what needs to be changed in 2013 in your community, city, state, country or the world?

2.  Or...on a personal level, what will you do to make a change in yourself in 2013?

3.  Or...how have you already helped change the world and how can you spread your message to others in 2013?

As a part of this month's topic, we're also asking teens in our national survey how they feel about one very important "change" topic...body image.

View Summary Report:  Teens and Body Image - Be the Change

StageofLife.com Teen Trends: Teens and Body Image

 
 

November 2012 Writing Contest:  What was the most inspirational or important book you've ever read?

Writing Contest Details:  After years of asking teens to submit personal, inspirational essays about everything from their favorite songs to their favorite movies, surprisingly, we never asked students to write an essay about their favorite book.

For those of you familiar with StageofLife.com, you know we're one of the nation's leading digital literacy initiatives.  So it's about time we celebrate one of the foundations of literacy itself... books!

We're asking high school and college students to share a 500 word essay about their favorite book and how and why it made an impact on their life.

View Summary Report:  Teens and Books

StageofLife.com Teen Trends: Teens, Books and Literacy


 
 StageofLife.com student writing contest - Sports and Family

October 2012:  SPORTS & FAMILY - How have sports positively (or negatively) shaped traditions in your family?

Writing Contest Details:  The month of October is rife with professional sports.  The World Series is played this month, along with college football, NFL football, NASCAR and NHL hockey seasons all being in full swing...not to mention the NBA basketball season starting too.

This led us to wonder how sports (American or International) play a role in forming family traditions (positively or negatively), so we're asking high school and college students to share a 500 word essay about the impact of sports as it relates to their family traditions.

View Summary Report:  Teens and Sports

StageofLife.com Teen Trends: Teens and Sports

 
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September 2012:  POLITICS & PASSION - Share a story about what one political issue is most important to you in the upcoming U.S. Presidential election.

Writing Contest Details:  With the U.S. presidential election coming up in November, our student writing contest this month asks teens and college students to share a personal essay on the current state of the union, and in particular, what one issue is the most important topic for you in the upcoming U.S. Presidential election.

We call this important issue your "passion issue."

Other components of the writing prompt also ask you to share if your parents' political viewpoints have made an impact on yours and which Presidential Candidate is best suited to make the lives of teens and college students better over the next four years.

View Summary Report:  Teens and Politics

StageofLife.com Teen Trends: Teens and Politics

 
Stage of Life writing contest - teens and music 

July & August 2012:  MUSIC - Share a story of a song that played an important role during a unique time in your life.

Writing Contest Details:  Music plays an integral role in our lives.  There was the song that was playing in the background during that last slow dance on your first prom.  The song you listened to over and over after your first break-up.  Or the song you and your friends belted out at the top of your lungs one summer night around a campfire.

We all have stories tied to songs that have become a part of who we are, thanks to those songs playing in the background during key moments and milestones of our lives.

For our July and August writing contest, we want you to share a 300-500 word essay about how a particular song impacted you during an important time in your life.

View Summary Report:  Teens and Music

StageofLife.com Teen Trends: Teens and Music

 
 

June 2012:  NATURE - How has nature inspired you?

Writing Contest Details:  With summer upon us, students will find themselves out of school...and outside!  Or...will they?

According to Richard Louv, author of Last Child in the Woods, today's children (and adults) are deprived of a basic necessity we have as humans...to connect with the outdoors.  Louv labels this phenomenon (that many saw happening but couldn't quite articulate): "nature-deficit disorder."

Between jobs, Facebook, online gaming, or bad weather, many teens will forgo opportunities to feel the grass beneath their toes, to breath in a summer breeze, to let sun touch their skin, and to otherwise connect with the planet around them.

But we know that can't be the case for everyone...can it?  Are we all experiencing nature-deficit?

How has nature inspired you?

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Teens and Nature

StageofLife.com Teen Trends: Teens and Nature

 
 National Teen Pregnancy Prevention Month May 2012:  TEEN PREGNANCY - What do you attribute to the decline of teen pregnancies?

Writing Contest Details:  According to the latest teen pregnancy statistics from the CDC, U.S. teen birth rates are at an all time low.  But the last report still showed a total of 367,752 babies were born to teen girls aged 15–19.  In honor of May being National Teen Pregnancy Prevention Month, we want to hear from teens and college students about why they think teen pregnancies are dropping.

What's the reason?  What's happening at your school or with your friends or in your community

VIEW SUMMARY REPORT:  Teen Pregnancy Prevention

StageofLife.com Teen Trends: Teen Pregnancy Prevention

 
 High School Writing Contest  

April 2012:  MOVIES - What movie has made the biggest difference in your life?

Writing Contest Details:  In honor of the hottest student movie ticket in town right now, "The Hunger Games" (based off the YA fiction novel of the same title by Suzanne Collins), we wanted to find out what films speak to teens and college students.

Which movies inspire you? 

VIEW SUMMARY REPORT: Teens and Movies

Teen Trends: Movies

 
 Poetry Writing Contest

March 2012:  POETRY - Dedicate a Poem to Someone Who Matters

Writing Contest Details: In preparation for April’s National Poetry Writing Month, we are asking teens and college students to write a poem in dedication to someone who matters in their life.  Whether it is a family member, friend, teacher, celebrity or kind stranger, write an original poem about what that person means to you. 

VIEW SUMMARY REPORT:  Teen Poems

Teen Trends: Poetry

 
Love Writing Contest 

February 2012:  LOVE - What's Your Definition of Love?

    Writing Contest Details:  Teens and college students find themselves in an on-going dance as they court, woo, avoid, or try to win the romantic affections or attention of someone they like, admire...love.

    Consider these famous quotes about love...

    • "If you have it [love], you don't need to have anything else. If you don't have it, it doesn't matter much what else you have" --James M Barrie
    • "All we need is love."  --John Lennon
    • "Young love is a flame; very pretty, often very hot and fierce, but still only light and flickering. The love of the older and disciplined heart is as coals, deep-burning, unquenchable."  --Henry Ward Beecher
    • "Love is like pi -- natural, irrational, and very important." --Lisa Hoffman
    • "For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.   I can live without money, but I cannot live without love."  --Judy Garland
    • "Gravitation is not responsible for people falling in love."  --Albert Einstein
    • "If you can't be with one you love, love the one you're with."  --Stephen Stills

    It goes without saying that love can be either the happiest emotion or most tragic.  Just look at your parents.  Your grandparents.  Romeo and Juliet.  Or Kim Kardashian and Kris Humphries.  From happy to tragic to absurd, love runs the gamut.  But these platitudes are all relative, because love will always be different for everyone.  How can we pin down a definition of love?

    VIEW SUMMARY REPORT:  See what teens think of love...

    Teen Trends: Love

     
    Person to Watch Writing Contest 

    January 2012:  Person to Watch in 2012?

      Writing Contest Details:  Last month, TIME magazine named "The Protestor" their Person of the Year for 2011.  That got us thinking...okay, but who is the person to watch in 2012? 

      So, in looking back at the last 12 months and considering the future, who would you nominate as the Person to Watch for 2012, and why? 

      Whether it's a celebrity, an innovator, a politician, a cultural icon, an up-and-coming artist, a rising star or someone more personal in your life, we want to hear, in 500 words or less, who your Person to Watch for 2012 would be.

      VIEW SUMMARY REPORT:  See who teens chose as the Person to Watch in 2012

      Teen Trends: 2012 Person to Watch

       
       High School Writing Contest

      November & December 2011: AWARENESS - What issue or cause should receive its own "awareness" month?

      • "There is nothing wrong with change, if it is in the right direction.” -Winston Churchill
      • “The time is always right to do what is right.” -Martin Luther King, Jr.
      • “You must be the change you wish to see in the world.” -Mohatma Ghandi

        Details:  We saw NFL players wearing pink throughout October in honor of National Breast Cancer Awareness month.  We will pay tribute to the role of African-Americans throughout February during Black History month.  Now think about the topics on which you're passionate, and share your thoughts on a single issue or cause that should receive its own awareness month. 

        In your essay, please creatively tell us...

        • Is this a local, regional, national, international or planetary issue?
        • Why is this issue important?
        • Who does the issue impact?
        • How could the message be spread?
        • Are there any organizations, companies or blogs currently trying to make a difference to increase awareness on this issue?

        VIEW SUMMARY REPORT:  See what teens wrote about awareness

        Teen Trends: Awareness Issues

         
         High School Writing Contest

        October 2011:  TRUST & SAFETY - Do you trust our institutions to keep us safe?

          Details: As we look ahead to Halloween, there are scarier things than ghosts and goblins in the lives of today's teenagers and college students. 

          For instance, from a historical perspective, Baby Boomers grew up living under the threat of nuclear Armageddon, complete with classroom drills to hide under their desks in the case of nuclear attack.  However, today's teenagers and college students have been growing up in their own unique time: 

          • The threat of internet predators, cyber-bullying, and other online dangers.
          • The threat of school shootings and lock-downs.
          • The threat of terrorism.

          How do you, as a student, feel about these threats, and do you have trust in your parents, school or government (the major institutions around you) to keep you safe?

          VIEW SUMMARY REPORT:  See what teens wrote about trust and safety

          Teen Trends: Trust & Safetey

           
           High School Writing Contest

          September 2011:  EDUCATION - Teacher Appreciation essays

            Details:  It's the big back in school month.  You're either loving it, hating it, or experiencing a mixture of both.   In fact, some of you may already be waiting for final bell to ring (even if it's only 9:45am).  However, no matter how this year is starting out (good or bad), we know that there have been certain teachers and classes in the past that stand out in your mind...

            This month, think back to a favorite class or educator (teacher/coach/director/principal).  Whether it was their attitude, the way they taught, or a life lesson you learned from their class/sport/activity, how did this person make a positive impact in your life?

            VIEW SUMMARY REPORT:  See what teens wrote about their teachers.

            Teen Trends: Teacher Appreciation

             
             

            August 2011:  SELF-REFLECTION - Letter to Me

              Details:  We want you to write a letter to yourself.  Yes, you heard us...a letter to yourself.  Take 15 minutes, alone, and spend some time thinking about the upcoming school year.  Think about the things you want to accomplish.  The things you fear.  Think about where you've been and where you're going.  Think about how your summer has been going.   What are you looking forward to?  What are you dreading about the return to school?  Think about your goals.  Think about if you're looking to make a big change this year...or simply survive? 

              After all of that thinking, now write a "Letter to Me."  This is a letter addressed to yourself.  Tackle some of the topics we've outlined above...or get creative and come up with your own original angle for the letter.

              VIEW SUMMARY REPORT:  See what teens had to write to themselves in our "Letter Me" writing prompt

              Teen Trends: Letter to Me

               
               

              July 2011:  BULLYING - Have you ever been bullied, teased, or picked on? If so, about what?

              Details: Whatever you want to call it, bullying is a problem in many schools and continues to be a hot topic in the national press.  We've know many students experienced some form of bullying during high school.

              Our writing contest question this month asks teens and college students to share their stories about being bullied or about being the bully. The student is then asked to write a short essay about that experience.

              Were you once a bully who regrets it now?  Share your experiences with us and help prevent students from bullying others.

              VIEW SUMMARY REPORT:  See what teens shared about being bullied.

              Teen Trends: Bullying

               
               Teen Trends - Parent Interview Writing Contest

              June 2011:  PARENTS - What is one thing you don't know about your Mother or Father?

              Teen Trends:  How well do teens really know their parents?

              Our writing contest question this month asks teens and college students to interview their parents and ask them to share ONE thing about themselves their son/daughter doesn't already know.  The student is then asked to write a short essay about that experience.

              Did you learn something that shaped the way you think about your parent?  We call this contest the "Parent Paradigm Shift."
               

              VIEW SUMMARY REPORT:  See what teens learned about their parents...

              Teen Trends: Parent Relationships

               

              May 2011:  OBSTACLES - What was the most difficult thing you overcame this school year?

              Teen Trends:  What major obstacles stood in the way this school year?

              From friends to family to graduation to grades to self esteem, teens go through a lot in a school year.  Tell us about one area or experience that caused you the most trouble, but that you were eventually able to overcome.

              Help inspire another high school student to gain some courage to tackle or navigate their problem by sharing your experience.

              VIEW SUMMARY REPORT:  See what challenges teenagers face today...  

              Teen Trends: Challenges

               
               Teen Writing Contest about Prom

              April 2011:  PROM - Is prom a positive or negative teen tradition?

              Teen Trends: How do teens feel about prom?

              Going to prom is a high school milestone, and prom traditions have been around for decades.  Dresses.  Dinner. DJ's.  Dancing.  For most teenagers, it's about celebrating life with friends and/or a significant other.  However, we've all heard the "negative" aspects often associated with prom too.  Drinking.  Drugs.  DUI's.  Damaged self-esteem.  Date rape.  So we want to know - is prom a positive or negative milestone.  

              VIEW SUMMARY REPORT:  See how teens feel about prom...

              Teen Trends: Prom

               
              Teen Trends and the Media

              March 2011:  MEDIA - What form of media impacts your life the most, and why?

              Teen Trends: How do teens feel about the media?

              The "media" is an undeniably powerful entity in our daily lives, and even more invasive for teens and college students, a generation growing up with more forms of media choices than any other generation before them.

              VIEW SUMMARY REPORT:  See how teens feel about the media...

              Teen Trends: Media

               
              Writing Contest for Teens about Marriage

              February 2011:  MARRIAGE - What is the value of marriage?

              Teen Trends:  How do teens feel about marriage?

              This contest came out in February 2011.  The month of love.  Valentine's Day sits right in the middle of this month and helps (or in some cases forces) all of us to pay homage to the idea of romance...love. We got little controversial this month and asked teens to share their point of view on marriage.

              VIEW SUMMARY REPORT:  See how teens feel about marriage...

               
              Writing Contest for Teens about Making the World a Better Place

              January 2011:  MAKE A DIFFERENCE - What organization, company, non-profit or 'cause' will help make the world a better place?

              Teen Trends:  How do teens want to better the world?

              Our mission on StageofLife.com is to help change the world, one story at a time.  What a better way to do that than to ask teens and college students about worthwhile causes we should all know about.  This was an opportunity for teens to shed light and share with us their favorite non-profit, company, organization or 'cause' that could help make the world a better place.

              VIEW SUMMARY REPORT:  See how teens feel about making the world a better place...

               
              Writing Contest for High School Students about Money

              December 2010:  MONEY - What is your relationship with money?  How do you spend (or save)...and why?

              Teen Trends: How do teens feel about money?

              Money....Cash.  Coin.  Greenbacks.  Pesos.  Gravy.  Deniro.  KaChing.  Moola.  So we're curious...how do teens and college students feel about money?  Whether the student knew a homeless teen or has a friend living in the penthouse, we wanted to know about their relationship with the almighty dollar.

              VIEW SUMMARY REPORT:  See how teens feel about money...

              Teen Trends: Money

               
              Writing Contest for Teenagers

              November 2010:  GIVING THANKS - What are you most thankful for?

              Teen Trends: What are teens grateful for?

              This writing contest rolled out in November 2010.  We all get busy during the day-to-day routine of our lives, but it's important to stop once in while and reflect on what matters most, and to give thanks for that.  Keeping that in mind, we wanted to hear from teens about who or what, in their lives right now, should receive public acknowledgment of their thanks.

              VIEW SUMMARY REPORT:  See for who and what teens are thankful...

              Teen Trends: Thanksgiving

               
              Writing Contest about Stress and Teens

              October 2010: TEEN STRESS -  What stresses you out, and how do you cope with that stress?

              Teen Trends: How do students deal with stress?

              From classes to homework to jobs to extra curricular activities to social outings, teens and college students are maintaining hectic schedules.  Add on top of that any current relationship hardships, social issues, e.g. bullying, illnesses or other personal problems and it's not surprising that many young people feel...stressed.

              VIEW SUMMARY REPORT:  See how teens deal with stress...

              Teens and Stress

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              Who Is Your Hero?

              September 2010:  HEROES - Who is your hero?

              Teen Trends:  Who would a teenager name as their hero?

              We wanted to talk about heroes, both big and small, with high school and college students.  We asked teens to name their hero, it could be a family member, someone famous, or an everyday person in their lives who is quietly making a difference, and then write a 500 word essay about that hero.  You'll love these responses.

              VIEW SUMMARY REPORT:  See who teens nominated as their heroes...

              Teen Heroes

               
              How Would Teens Improve Education?

              August 2010: EDUCATION - What suggestion(s) do you have to make a positive change at your school or with the educational system as a whole?

              Teen Trends: How would teens improve education?

              We wanted to know how students were perceiving their educations, educational environments at their high schools, colleges and universities and the overall trends in education.  We asked the teens for ideas on how to improve the educational environment.

              VIEW SUMMARY REPORT:  See how teens would improve the educational system...

              Teens and Education

               
               Writing Contest for Teens about Food

              July 2010: FOOD - Do we have an obligation to take better care of ourselves by making changes in the way we eat and/or buy and consume food?

              Teen Trends:  How do teens feel about food, obesity and nutrition?

              TV shows like NBC's Biggest Loser are big hits and books like Michael Pollan's Food Rules are flying off the shelves.  Even film documentaries like Food, Inc. and Super Size Me have pushed into the mainstream consciousness.  It goes without saying a tipping point is occurring in our society's awareness in regards to people's relationship with food.  Obesity in America is reaching an epidemic...but are people ready or really willing to change?  Is our addiction to unhealthy food too hard to break?

              See how teens feel about food, obesity and nutrition...[this summary report is being pulled from the essay archive for posting here soon]

               
               Writing Contest for High School Students about College

              June 2010: COLLEGE - What is the most difficult thing (for you) about college?

              Teen Trends:  How do teens feel about college?

              We want to know what's making the college process or college itself difficult and why.  Financial aid?  Application process?  Juggling classes and work? What is making college difficult?  This contest was held in partnership with "Take America to College" initiative.

              See how teens feel about college...[this summary report is being pulled from the essay archive for posting here soon]

               
               Writing Contest for Teens about the Environment

              May 2010: ENVIRONMENT - What is one behavior you can either change or incorporate into your daily life that will reduce our negative impact on the environment?

              Teen Trends:  How do teens feel about the environment?

              The negative environmental impact and tragedy of lives lost from the BP off-shore oil rig disaster was obvious.  What we wanted from our high school and college students entering this month's writing contest was not their outrage about how this could have happened, but rather, share one solution (big or small) that can help combat man's ever-reaching environmental impact.

              See how teens feel about helping the environment...[this summary report is being pulled from the essay archive for posting here soon]

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