Posted: Tuesday, August 07, 2012 4:42:58 AM
Welcome, welcome, all ladies and gentlemen are invited to read and share your thoughts! So you all, if you were in a relationship where your significant other claimed he or she loves you but just have a habit of “harmless” flirting, what would you do or say? Do you guys think it would be fair to you? In my opinion, regardless of how appealing you are to my brown eyes I will not give you the time of day. If I notice that you’re a flirt addict, chances are because of your addiction, you might be flirting with almost every girl and who likes to be treated the same way as everyone else? I say, if I’m “your” girl, then you shouldn’t be sweet talking anyone else but me! Call it selfishness if you want but people tend to forget that a relationship is meant for two individuals not four or more.
I gathered some dirt from some of my guy friends and asked them why they think it’s cool to flirt with others while in a serious relationship. I came to find out that they only do it to prove to their guy friends that they still can attract other females. Furthermore, it boosts their egos but the flirting is nothing more or less. Even so, guys know that if it was the other way around, they would be highly upset to know that their girl is flirting with other guys. So it seems to me like always, there’s a “double standard.” Guy’s can do it, of course! But girls can’t?
Plus, why restrict yourself in a relationship when you know very well that you have the urge to flirt? Might as well dwell in the single life and live it up until you’re ready. However, what are your thoughts on this you guys? Should we only stop flirting when we’re married or should we stop when we’re in a serious relationship? Ladies and gentlemen, teen’s and tween’s, feel free to share your thoughts! I’m looking forward to them