Posted: Tuesday, February 21, 2012 7:30:52 PM
How do I define love?
That is a very complicated question for me. You would think with my parents being married for almost seventeen years I would know exactly what it is.
I don’t though.
I know it’s an emotion people feel and use to describe how they care for the person they are with. I know everyone feels it whether they know it or not. It may be for that new animal they got, or they person there with now, it could even be for the family have. Everyone feels it at one point in their life. Even the people who go around killing others feel it as well.
I honestly don’t know what love is. I’m only fifteen, so I don’t know that much about the subject. I do know my parents are in love. My mom has been through hell and back for my dad and this family. If that’s not love then I don’t know what is.
The media isn’t exactly the best on love. Sure some couples stay together though it all. Mostly they don’t though. Just look at the couple who was married for like seventy something days then got a divorce. That doesn’t show anything but negative feelings with everything. No one should use the media as a prime example for positive feelings on love.
My parents show that love does exist for some people. I still don’t believe in it, but they have been through a lot and still act love struck teenagers. They have been married for almost seventeen years, but off and on for twenty years. They broke up; my dad got some other girl pregnant, married her, and divorced after about a year. My mom waited the entire time. It could them about three different tries to get married with her parents against it. If they hadn’t got married my sisters and I wouldn’t be here. I thank my mom for listening to her heart and no other people.
Passion, puppy love, and lust do exist. Sometimes you have all three and others you have just one.
Passion is what you feel for a person. It lets you know that you do care for them. You have to have some kind of passion in a relationship. If you don’t, then, it just wouldn’t be the same. Your heart has to care for them, and passion is also just another word you use to describe sex.
Puppy love is just another word for a first crush. It’s how you start to first feel about someone. Simple as that.
Lust, is how you feel about a person’s body and not who they are. Lust is what you feel for them when you’re having sex and not making love. Passion is making love while lust is sex. Lust is how you feel about the outer side of a person and not the inside. Lust is not something you want in a relationship. It only describes sex.