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Joined: 1/4/2009 Posts: 7
Karl
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Posted: Thursday, October 08, 2009 2:28:10 PM
I'd like some CREATIVE tips on how to become more attractive, a.k.a. "hot," for my wife.
She thinks I'm the cat's meow as it is but I'd like to surprise her with some other things I could do that might push me into the Brad Pitt realm of "hotness."
We used to watch Grey's Anatomy and she'd say things like, "McSteamy's hot" and with drool dripping from her lips, barely utter in a cavewoman-like grunt, "McDreamy...hot...too."
So yeah...I guess I'd like to surprise her with a few little changes that might put me into the McBetterThanBefore hot.
I am open to suggestions on ways to increase my hotness factor.
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Joined: 4/20/2009 Posts: 106
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This sounds just like something my hubby would ask! LOL!!
First of all, find out what SHE considers to be hot. I think for most women, the bottom line is much more than appearance. Now if my hubby never bathed, brushed his teeth, and expelled gas through both ends without saying "excuse me", that would be an immediate turn off.
Most of the time, if a wife refers to the physical appearance of a man by saying, "He is hot!" Then that is usually as far as it goes. It does not necessarily mean that she wishes her man looked just like that guy!
In my opinion and and after 25 years of marriage, the things that make my husband HOT is more about what is in his heart! Do you know what your wife's love language is? Does she love it when you serve her by doing favors for her around the house and such? What about time? Is she blessed by your spending extra one on one time with her...just focusing on her and talking with her? How about love gifts? Is she delighted by your small gestures of maybe surprising her with a single rose you stopped and picked up for her on the way home from work? Or bringing home her favorite chocolate bar?
Do you praise her in front of others? Or compliment her regularly?
These are just a few suggestions and personal opinions to ways you can polish up your "hotness" in your wife's eyes! Even though appearace is important, hotness is a stance of the heart that will keep your wife drooling over you year after year!!
Posted: Saturday, October 10, 2009 7:53:29 PM
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Joined: 2/9/2009 Posts: 4
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Take a note from McSteamy- subtle facial hair around the jar line is hot.
Posted: Monday, November 09, 2009 3:47:59 PM
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